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Name: Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood Through Adulthood
Author: Edward M. Hallowell

Why millions of bright, capable people got called lazy instead of diagnosed

Edward M. Hallowell

8 Key Insights

About This Book

A psychiatrist accused, on national radio, of helping parents excuse bad behavior with a made-up diagnosis. A woman who cries over a cough drop she can't seem to throw away for days. A family locked for years in what its own therapist calls the Big Struggle. Edward Hallowell, a psychiatrist who discovered his own attention deficit disorder while training at Harvard, and his colleague John Ratey draw on hundreds of real patients to show what ADD actually looks like in children, adults, marriages, and families, why 'just try harder' fails as advice, and what genuinely helps once the right diagnosis finally arrives.

About the Author

Edward M. Hallowell is a psychiatrist who first learned about attention deficit disorder during his psychiatric fellowship at the Massachusetts Mental Health Center in Boston, and later recognized the condition in himself. He has spent his career treating children, adults, couples, and families with ADD, writing from hundreds of hours in the consulting room rather than from theory alone. John Ratey, a psychiatrist and longtime friend and squash partner of Hallowell's since their residency years, co-authored the book and has separately become known for his work connecting physical exercise to brain function. Together they wrote one of the first books to bring adult ADD to a general audience.

Biggest Takeaway

You'll stop mistaking your own or someone else's distractibility for laziness or bad character, and start recognizing patterns, like forgetting something the instant you're interrupted, or feeling chronically on the edge of collapse despite real success, as signs worth investigating rather than personal failings. You'll know what an accurate ADD diagnosis actually requires, so you can pursue one instead of guessing. If ADD touches your marriage or your family, you'll have language for the exhausting cycles you're caught in, plus a concrete way to start negotiating your way out instead of repeating the same fight next week.