Elevate performance by setting a sterling reputation

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At the nonprofit where Rosa worked, fundraising had stalled. Donations plateaued, and morale was low. The board was ready to shake things up, but no one wanted to step forward. Then the executive director asked Rosa into her office and said, “Rosa, your quiet persistence gets results. You know our donors better than anyone. I’m counting on you to lead this year’s gala committee.” Rosa blinked—she’d never led anything that big. Yet the director’s words lit a fire. Over the next weeks, she visited long-time donors with a calm confidence she’d never felt before. She negotiated sponsorships, fine-tuned the theme, and rallied volunteers. The gala raised 40% more than the previous year. All because she was given a reputation to live up to—and she did.

Social psychology research confirms the self-fulfilling prophecy: when you tell someone they possess a prized trait, they work harder to validate it, improving performance by up to 30%. By casting an empowering vision, you inspire people to surpass their own expectations.

You single out a genuine strength, cast it forward into a bigger role and trust them to live up to their reputation. With this gentle nudge, you’ll watch them step up and reshape your team’s success. Give it a try this week.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll foster confidence and ownership internally, and externally you’ll see people exceed targets and become more engaged.

Cast an empowering vision

1

Highlight a core strength

Identify one asset or skill you genuinely admire. Tell them, “You’ve shown exceptional reliability,” or similar.

2

Project their potential

Combine it with the future: “I know you can lead this new initiative with the same dependability.”

3

Frame the ask around that reputation

Present tasks as the next chance to prove themselves: “Would you take on X given your track record?”

4

Express faith in success

End with “I believe you’ll do a fantastic job”—cementing their new self-image.

Reflection Questions

  • What positive reputation could help someone on your team excel?
  • Which upcoming task is perfect for you to cast that vision?
  • How will you word your praise to connect strength to future success?
  • When might you catch yourself underestimating someone’s abilities?
  • What shifts when you lead by believing in others?

Personalization Tips

  • Project: “With your knack for clear timelines, could you head this phase?”
  • Family: “You’re our go-to tech guru—mind setting up the video call?”
  • Coaching: “Your consistency on the track inspires others—will you coach the new group?”
How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age (Dale Carnegie Books)
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How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age (Dale Carnegie Books)

Dale Carnegie 2011
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