How Sleep Quality During Pregnancy Sets the Stage for Emotional Resilience

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You pull the covers up and notice how the glow of your phone once felt like a comfort at bedtime but now just keeps your mind spinning. You take a slow breath, set the phone in the other room, and switch on a soft lamp beside your bed. The room feels calmer than usual—just quiet hums from outside and the rhythmic breathing of your partner in the next room.

Tonight you read three pages from a favorite childhood novel, something about the gentle cadence of the words making your shoulders relax. On a whim, you scribble down a few lines in your notebook about the kick you felt today and a friend’s unexpected text. It’s mundane, but comforting. Your thoughts settle, and you find yourself drifting off sooner, rather than scrolling endlessly.

Sleep doesn’t just rest your body; it resets your ability to cope with change, connect with others, and rebound from stress. Neuroscience research reveals that good sleep strengthens emotional self-regulation and is protective against anxiety and depression—an essential resource during the emotional ups and downs of pregnancy.

Tonight, decide on a set time for bed and power down your screens a half hour before. Use that now-screen-free window for something gentle—a few stretches, a favorite playlist, or a short bit of writing in a bedside notebook. Notice if you feel calmer as you slip beneath the covers, and remind yourself that this ritual is a quiet gift to your future self and your growing baby. Tweak the details to fit your rhythm and let sleep be your secret superpower, starting tonight.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll notice improved mood, lower anxiety, and greater adaptability in facing pregnancy changes, while giving your developing baby a more stable environment for growth.

Create a Personalized Rest Ritual Each Night

1

Set a consistent bedtime routine.

Go to bed and wake up at the same times every day, even on weekends, to stabilize your body's internal clock.

2

Eliminate blue light and screen use before bed.

Switch off devices 30 minutes before bed and use a bedside lamp or low lighting to signal to your brain that it’s time to relax.

3

Incorporate a calming activity.

Read a physical book, stretch, listen to soothing music, or journal about the day’s highlights and worries.

Reflection Questions

  • How does my evening routine impact my ability to fall asleep?
  • What changes could help me wake up feeling more refreshed?
  • How do my emotions shift after a good night’s rest?

Personalization Tips

  • After putting away your phone, you might do a series of gentle stretches in your room.
  • Keep a gratitude journal next to your bed and jot down three good moments from the day.
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