Observe conversations to improve your listening skills
from You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy
How to Apply This
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Sit with a group of friends or family who is having a conversation
Try to observe silently instead of joining in. -
Make a mental note of how many people really listen before they respond
Observe those who are supposed to be listening, where is their attention? -
Listen attentively to each person to follow the conversation
This takes effort, but it’s important to fully focus on each speaker and understand their message. -
Pay attention to whether people respond to what was said
Are they speaking over each other, or only about their own agenda? -
Resolve to listen and build on what was said when you next converse
This will enhance your conversations and your relationships.
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