Improve your perception of reality.

When you accept and understand it, you notice that every human being has a different map of the world. Eventually, you’ll come to the realization that every person on this planet has different life experiences, beliefs, values, and expectations. Interpretation of the same information may be completely different when made by different people. There is no one objective truth.

Instructions

  1. Take into account that interpretation of the same information may be completely different when made by different people.
    There is no one objective truth. Everyone is right according to their own map of the world.
  2. Anything people say to you doesn’t have any meaning except for the meaning you give it.
    If someone says crap to you, you can just ignore it. It has meaning only if you give it meaning.
  3. Don’t argue with others about who is right.
    You both have different maps of reality. An argument here may not make any sense. Arguing just for the sake of being right is pointless.

Insights

Every time you don't agree with someone is because they don't have the same knowledge (or mindset) as you do. Or vice versa. Therefore, arguing who is right makes no sense. Instead, try to understand others, and find out who is lacking the knowledge or having a different mindset, or how your past experiences that lead to your mindset are different.
Yes, sounds simple, if you are not too emotional about things. Controlling your emotions is the difficult part here :).

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