Get out of worrying, melancholy, or depression with effective distractions
from Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman
How to Apply This
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Try to identify your worrying or melancholic state as early as you can
The sooner you can identify these states the easier it will be to escape or avoid them. -
Use effective distractions to shift your mood - in moderation
For example, an exciting sporting event, a funny movie, an uplifting book. (A note of caution here: Some distractors in themselves can perpetuate depression. Studies of heavy TV watchers have found that, after watching TV, they are generally more depressed than before they started!) -
Go for easy success
Tackling some long-delayed chore around the house or getting to some other duty they’ve been wanting to clear up. Lifts to self-image are also cheering, even if only in the form of getting dressed up or putting on makeup. -
Help others
Throwing oneself into volunteer work—coaching Little League, being a Big Brother, feeding the homeless—are some of the most powerful mood-changers But are also one of the rarest.
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