Do it for love, not for personal gain or pleasure.
A man should treat the world the same as he treats his woman, to magnify love, openness, and depth. Not for personal pleasure or gain.
Discover your deepest truth, enjoy total freedom and love, and give your fullest gifts.
To truly love your woman and the world takes authenticity, persistence, and courage.
The reason you are here is to give your deepest gift of love, your deepest genius, and a true endowment to your woman and the world.
The opposite would be if you extract the pleasure and comfort you need to assuage your nagging sense of falsity and incompleteness.