Free Your Mind by Outsourcing Everyday Decisions

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You greet your phone screen as it lights up with another calendar invite and a sea of unread emails. By lunchtime you’ve spent two hours answering minor queries, booking meetings, and juggling lunches—barely scraping the surface of your real priorities.

One afternoon, your assistant slips a simple note: “I’ve connected Calendly to your calendar, you’ll only see confirmed slots. Also, your Uber now arrives at home exactly when you finish that morning meeting.” You barely notice at first, but by the end of the week you realize your mind feels clearer and your afternoons are back.

On Monday, you tackle your biggest project head on because you’re not weary from dozens of little calls and clicks. That frictionless shift comes from offloading trivial but taxing decisions—freeing up mental bandwidth to dive deep. Willpower research calls it “decision fatigue,” the invisible drain that makes every next choice feel harder.

Removing recurring decisions isn’t cheating yourself. It’s honoring the fact that your attention is a scarce asset. By outsourcing routine choices to capable Whos or apps, you protect your ability to focus on high-value, creative work. You’ll end the week more energized, confident, and surprisingly productive.

Start by listing all your little daily tasks—booking rides, answering routine emails, scheduling calls—and note how long each steals from your day. Then, pick one item and hand it off to a person or automation: subscribe to a meal-kit service, install a scheduler, or hire a part-time assistant. Notice how that simple shift frees your mind for more exciting challenges. Try it this afternoon.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll drastically reduce decision fatigue, reclaim hours of weekly focus, and enjoy deeper creative flow by outsourcing routine tasks, leading to greater clarity, energy, and high-impact outputs.

Trade routine tasks for high-impact work

1

List everyday decisions

Spend two minutes noting tasks under 30 minutes—email sorting, scheduling, or data entry—that eat into your focus and drain your willpower.

2

Estimate decision cost

For each task, record how many minutes it takes and multiply by your hourly value. Quickly see how much mental bandwidth you lose daily.

3

Identify willing Whos

Name colleagues, services, or apps that can handle each task. A virtual assistant, an automated scheduler, or an Uber ride instead of driving can reclaim both time and mental space.

4

Delegate or automate

Assign each item to a Who or install an app. Give clear instructions once and trust them to set up ongoing systems—your mind will thank you.

Reflection Questions

  • Which recurring decision saps your energy most?
  • Who could reliably take that off your plate?
  • What simple system would automate one small task this week?
  • How would your productivity improve with an extra two clear hours each day?
  • What barriers prevent you from delegating these decisions now?

Personalization Tips

  • Parenting: Let a babysitting co-op handle school-pickup and drop-off so you can run focused work blocks.
  • Freelancing: Automate your invoicing and payment reminders with software so you only review outstanding bills once a week.
  • Health: Use a meal-delivery service for pre-planned healthy meals, freeing you from grocery-shopping decisions.
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Who Not How: The Formula to Achieve Bigger Goals Through Accelerating Teamwork

Dan Sullivan 2020
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