How Sunday-night rituals fuel your Monday

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Sunday nights can feel like an hourglass running out as Monday looms. Emails pop back into your inbox, and you can almost taste the first commute of the week. You might hope to unwind, but without a plan, anxiety can creep in, turning your final evening into a work prep session.

That changed for a schoolteacher who started treating Sunday night like any other valuable slot—an anchor event. She picked a 7 p.m. family game time, moved screens away, and had everyone gather in the living room. Though she was tempted to finish lesson plans, once they rolled dice and laughed, her breathing slowed.

Research on anticipatory coping shows having a positive event to look forward to at week’s end reduces stress and improves mood on Monday morning. Whether it’s a shared meal, a walk in the park, or even a short dance session in the kitchen, that ritual becomes a bridge from rest to readiness.

By safeguarding a joyful anchor, you shift focus from Monday’s demands to Sunday’s pleasure. Your remembering self ends the weekend on a high, so you start the new week with more resilience and less dread.

Pick one Sunday-night activity you truly enjoy and slot it in as a fixed event. Gather any needed items ahead of time, then when your ritual begins, fully immerse yourself—warm soup, shuffle cards, stretch muscles—and leave work thoughts behind. This simple step turns Sunday evening into a launchpad for a confident, energized Monday. Try booking it tonight.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll reduce Sunday-night anxiety and strengthen positive anticipation, ending the weekend on a high note. Externally, you’ll enter Monday with clearer focus, greater calm, and improved productivity.

Pick a joyful Sunday ritual

1

Brainstorm five activities

List five things you’d genuinely enjoy doing on Sunday evening—like a short yoga flow, cooking with family, or a brisk neighborhood stroll.

2

Schedule one as nonnegotiable

Block it on your calendar for Sunday at a set time, even if it’s just from 6:00 to 7:00 p.m.

3

Prepare in advance

Gather any materials—yoga mat, book, ingredients—so you can begin the moment your ritual starts.

4

Engage fully

When the time arrives, resist work-related thoughts. Focus on the sensory details—warmth of the skillet, stretch of your muscles, sounds of conversation.

Reflection Questions

  • What activity would most lift your mood on Sunday night?
  • How can you prepare now so no last-minute work intrudes?
  • What reminders will help you honor this ritual?
  • How might this habit change your Monday arrival?

Personalization Tips

  • A librarian hosts an early family potluck every Sunday, looking forward to shared stories around the table.
  • A chef blocks 6 p.m. Sundays for a restorative yoga class to release the week’s tension.
  • A nonprofit director volunteers at a shelter each Sunday night, shifting focus from office tasks to service.
What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast: A Short Guide to Making Over Your Mornings-and Life
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What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast: A Short Guide to Making Over Your Mornings-and Life

Laura Vanderkam 2012
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