Slow down your thinking to make smarter decisions
Fast thinking feels efficient—snap judgments, “thinking on your feet.” But decades of cognitive research show our first reaction is often outdated, colored by emotion or old assumptions. In 2015, psychologist Daniel Kahneman described two systems of thought: System 1, rapid and automatic, and System 2, slow and deliberate. Relying solely on System 1 can lead to biases, overconfidence, and costly mistakes.
Consider Vanessa, a project lead who habitually agreed to every speaking invitation for exposure. Within months, her calendar overflowed and her main work stalled. Then she tried a slow-thinking experiment: each time an invite arrived, she said she’d respond next day. Overnight, she noticed that only half the invites mattered, and some she’d forgotten entirely by morning.
Kahneman’s work underscores the value of forcing System 2 engagement. A 24-hour pause gives your brain time to process additional information, correct emotional distortions, and connect dots you’d otherwise miss.
By institutionalizing that delay, you create space for insight, reduce regret, and align actions with long-term goals. Next time you’re pressed for an immediate reply, remember: Slow down to think smarter.
When someone asks for your quick yes, say you’ll get back after sleeping on it. Before bed, write down your gut response, listing hopeful points and worries. In the morning, compare your fresh thoughts and decide from this calmer, broader viewpoint. You’ll find more balance and fewer regrets. Try it on your next request.
What You'll Achieve
You’ll reduce impulsive decisions and catch hidden biases, leading to smarter, more sustainable choices. Externally, this practice can save time, prevent overcommitment, and improve relationships.
Give your mind a full 24-hour pause
When asked, delay your answer.
Instead of replying immediately to proposals or requests, say, “I’d like to think this over and will get back to you tomorrow.”
Journal your initial reaction.
Before bed, jot down your first instinct—your gut feeling, pros and cons, any doubts. This captures the raw thought.
Compare next-day insights.
Review your notes in the morning and record any new ideas, concerns, or shifts in perspective. Make decisions from this richer viewpoint.
Reflection Questions
- When has my first response led to regret?
- What emotions drive my rapid yes or no?
- How might a day’s pause change my current decision?
- What small experiment can I run to test this pause?
Personalization Tips
- A student delays signing up for a club, sleeping on the choice, then decides based on fresh priorities, avoiding overcommitment.
- A salesperson pauses before quoting a big deal, reflecting overnight to balance confidence and realism.
- A parent postpones a difficult parenting conversation by 24 hours, returning with a calmer, clearer plan of what to say.
THINK STRAIGHT: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life
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