Treat Your Calendar Like a Firewall Against Overwork

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Sasha used to be an ‘always-on’ marketer—laptops open at night, emails answered at 6 a.m., coworkers pinged on weekends. She felt stuck in a digital hamster wheel. One Monday, she set firm boundaries: work from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., shut down her laptop at 5, and do yoga in her living room by 5:15. The first week was awkward; her team asked if she’d switched jobs. But she stuck to it, even turning her laptop off at 5 pm—locating it in her bedroom closet before dinner. Within days her mind felt clearer, and her productivity during work hours actually increased. Her evenings became sacred space for friends and painting. Neuroscience calls this the boundary effect: creating physical and temporal separations helps your brain release the stress chemicals built up during work and renew your focus for the next day. Sasha’s rigorous schedule turned out not to dampen her performance but to supercharge it—and she finally felt free from the grind.

Decide on a concrete work interval—say, 9–5—then add it to your calendar with ‘Busy’ status. When that time ends, shut your computer and walk to a cafe or park before switching to personal activities. Finally, schedule a daily Do Not Disturb on your phone tied to those hours to block incoming pings. By treating your calendar like a firewall, you’ll sharpen focus at work and guard your personal life—try it on Monday.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll reclaim evenings and weekends with clear start/stop rituals, leading to reduced burnout and higher focus during work hours. You’ll also restore a healthier work-life rhythm.

Block work and personal time deliberately

1

Set strict work hours

Choose start and end times for your workday and calendar them. Respect these slots like important client meetings—no early logins or late check-outs.

2

Use location transitions

Change your physical environment when you shift to personal time—walk out of the office or move to a different room. This signals your brain you’re off the clock.

3

Automate after-hours limits

Set your phone and email client to Do Not Disturb outside work hours. Schedule messages for the next day so you resist the urge to reply in real time.

Reflection Questions

  • What times of day do you feel most tempted to keep working, and why?
  • Where could you physically move when you switch from work to personal time?
  • What notifications can you silence after hours to protect your boundary?

Personalization Tips

  • Remote parent: Pack up your laptop at 4 p.m. and store it in a closet before helping with homework.
  • Office worker: Walk to a nearby park before heading home to reset your mind each evening.
The Good Enough Job: Reclaiming Life from Work
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The Good Enough Job: Reclaiming Life from Work

Simone Stolzoff 2023
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