Multiply Opportunities by Engaging Connectors

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Maggie ran a small charity struggling to secure corporate sponsors. She had one enthusiastic board member—Sam—known for his far-reaching contacts. Rather than bombard him with guilt trips, Maggie offered to help plan his next community fundraiser. Over a week, they sent invites, coordinated volunteers, and tasted the catering menu.

At the event’s post-mortem, Sam asked Maggie over coffee which types of organizations she wanted to reach. He pulled out his phone, mapped a list of potential sponsors, and introduced her via warm email. Within a month, three new companies signed on.

By focusing first on Sam’s needs and demonstrating genuine support, Maggie became more than a cause—she became a valued partner. That shift unlocked access to networks she never could have cracked alone.

Granovetter’s theory of weak ties highlights how these lightly connected networks often yield the richest opportunities. When you nurture your connectors and prioritize their interests first, you tap into an exponential web of possibilities.

Start by listing five connectors who believe in you, then choose one and offer them a genuine favor—help plan an event or share a useful resource. Ask for an introduction to a target contact, then promptly thank them and report back on the outcome. Repeat the process with each connector to expand your reach exponentially.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll cultivate a powerful web of advocates who proactively open doors, accelerating opportunities and partnerships beyond your immediate network.

Build Your Connector Map

1

List top connectors

Identify five people in your network who know and trust you and have wide-reaching contacts.

2

Offer meaningful help

For each connector, think of one way you can assist them this month—such as an introduction, a resource, or event support.

3

Request introductions

Arrange a brief call or coffee and ask which introductions would make the greatest impact on your goals.

4

Follow up generously

When you receive referrals, thank your connector by sharing outcomes and looking for ways to reciprocate.

Reflection Questions

  • Who are the natural connectors you know best?
  • What meaningful help could you offer them?
  • How will you track and celebrate each introduction?

Personalization Tips

  • A nonprofit leader asks a well-connected board member to meet a potential sponsor.
  • A writer offers a marketing consultant free editorial feedback in exchange for industry referrals.
  • A startup founder invites a connector to speak at an industry lunch, then asks for intros.
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The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea

Bob Burg 2007
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