Exceed Expectations to Build Unshakable Value

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Mike was a regional account manager whose sales plateaued at 70 percent of quota. Every morning, he’d hear the hum of the office printer and the clacking of keyboards as his team poured over dashboards, chasing numbers. One Friday, after a tense meeting about missed targets, Mike decided to test a different approach. At lunch, he printed out individual one-page summaries of each client’s recent interactions—something they weren’t expecting—and folded a handwritten note of appreciation into each packet.

Back in the conference room, he watched faces soften as his colleagues reviewed the summaries. Carla, the strictest client, actually smiled. When Mike called her afterward, she thanked him not only for the data refresh but for caring about her concerns. Within two weeks, renewals rose by 15 percent.

Mike realized that exceeding expectations didn’t require big budgets—just thoughtful extras. He mapped out a calendar to add one small surprise for every key client each week. His relationships strengthened, referrals grew, and his reputation as a “go-to” partner solidified.

Psychological research on the norm of reciprocity shows that when you give unanticipated value, recipients feel a genuine desire to return the favor. Over time, these micro-gestures accumulate into lasting loyalty and measurable business growth.

Next time you wrap up any client or coworker conversation, choose one small add-on—perhaps a quick tip, a relevant article link, or a note of thanks—and deliver it the same day. Watch how that simple extra shifts their perception and deepens trust, then ask for feedback to refine your approach. Give it a try today.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll shift from transactional to transformational interactions, boosting client satisfaction, generating organic referrals, and building a reputation for reliability and generosity.

Add Unexpected Extras Daily

1

Identify key expectations

After a customer or coworker interaction, jot down what they most needed from you. This could be an answer to a question, a quick fix, or advice on a project.

2

Brainstorm one extra

List three “above and beyond” ideas—like a personalized tip, a bonus resource, or a handwritten note—that complement their original need.

3

Deliver your extra

At your next interaction, surprise them by offering that extra. For example, slip a helpful template or share a link to an article that deepens their insight.

4

Ask for feedback

Within a day, follow up and ask which part of the extra they found most useful to refine your future value-adds.

Reflection Questions

  • When was the last time you added an unexpected extra for someone?
  • What small resource could you share today to exceed expectations?
  • How might your relationships change if you did this consistently?
  • What feedback could help you improve your added extras?

Personalization Tips

  • A teacher sends students a short quiz on a topic they struggled with and invites questions afterward.
  • A fitness coach mails personalized progress cards to each client noting their wins from the past week.
  • A freelance writer includes a free checklist of style tips when delivering a draft to a new client.
The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea
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The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea

Bob Burg 2007
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