Use a simple evening ritual to transform tomorrow’s performance

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Kate used to scroll her phone until she fell asleep—emails, news, social media feeds. She woke groggy, hit snooze twice, then scrambled through her morning. Her productivity cratered. Then she tried a bedtime ritual: no screens 45 minutes before bed, a small journal in hand.

Each night she wrote down three wins—like perfect conference-call notes or a 10-minute walk in fresh air. She then jotted three wins for tomorrow—a clearer outline for her presentation, a quick stretch break at lunch, and dinner prep before 8 PM. As she wrote, her racing thoughts slowed. The act of focusing on wins released tension and her coffee turned cold while she visualized success the next day.

She slept deeper and woke with purpose—no snooze hits, no panic. By week two her energy soared and her output doubled. She still had tough days, but she ended each one by celebrating progress and beginning the next with a mapped-out path.

Behavioral science confirms this sweet-spot hour harnesses memory consolidation during sleep and primes your subconscious toward set goals. Kate’s ritual shows how a simple three-wins list can transform rest, mood, and peak performance.

Turn off screens 30–60 minutes before bed and grab your journal. Note today’s three specific wins, then list tomorrow’s top three wins. Take a moment to visualize completing each before drifting off. This ritual calms your mind, anchors positive memories, and primes you for an energized, focused morning. Give it a try tonight.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll fall asleep faster, sleep more deeply, and wake with clear, prioritized intentions. Externally, mornings become proactive, boosting daily productivity and consistency.

Turn bedtime into your power hour

1

Power down your screen

Thirty to sixty minutes before sleep, put your phone on airplane mode and set it aside. This cuts blue light and mental distractions that disrupt rest.

2

Journal tonight’s wins

Write three concrete wins from today—no more. Keep them specific, like “I finished my report” or “I walked 5,000 steps.”

3

Plan tomorrow’s top three

Below today’s wins, list the three most important wins you want tomorrow. No more than three to stay focused on what truly matters.

4

Visualize as you drift off

Close your eyes and imagine ticking off each planned win tomorrow. Anchor the feeling of success with a single deep breath before sleep.

Reflection Questions

  • How does unplugging before bed affect your sleep quality?
  • Which three wins from today are you most proud of?
  • What resistance arises when you try this ritual and how can you adjust?
  • How does visualizing tomorrow’s successes change your morning mood?

Personalization Tips

  • A parent records three peaceful moments with their child before bed and plans three fun activities for tomorrow.
  • An athlete logs three training milestones and sets three tomorrow’s workout targets to prime strength gains.
  • A writer notes three productive writing sessions and outlines three draft goals for the next morning’s first cup of coffee.
The Gap and The Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success
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The Gap and The Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

Dan Sullivan 2021
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