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Each evening the world grows quiet, the glow of your screen dims and the day’s headlines fade. Yet inside, your mind keeps replaying every awkward word, every half-forgotten task. You’re tired, but the Chimp scrabbles for attention—“What about all the errors?” “Did you really nail that presentation?” The sleeper’s door is closed to the Human’s calm, so you lie awake, pulled into a loop.

You could let nighttime Chimp-show rule your rest, or you can set a daily ritual to rewire your response. At a fixed ten-minute moment—right before you turn off the light—you pause. In a little notebook you write two lines: “Today’s win” and “Today’s Chimp-hiccup.” You don’t aim for flawless, only for honest. You highlight a single Gremlin belief that surfaced and craft its opposite: “I can learn from mistakes”—your new Autopilot.

The pen’s scratch is a quiet meditation, a clear boundary between hectic daytime and restful night. You seal the ritual by jotting one micro-celebration, then place your pen down—like laying your armor by the door. The Chimp may still rustle, but it knows tomorrow it’ll get its own moment too.

Science on habit research shows that small, consistent journaling rewires thought patterns in just a few weeks. That ten-minute pause becomes your anchor, guiding you out of emotional loops and into genuine rest.

Tonight, at your chosen ten-minute signal, you’ll open your notebook. In two lines—one win, one hiccup—you name both the triumph and the Chimp squawk. You draft a new belief to dissolve that Gremlin and sign off with a tiny celebration. This isn’t just pen and paper—it’s a quiet commitment to shift your brain’s default. Try it tonight and let the hush of reflection carry you into genuine rest.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll establish a daily habit that strengthens your Human mind, loosens destructive thought loops, and fosters a calmer, more self-aware you.

Reserve Ten Minutes for Self-Review

1

Block out a fixed ten-minute slot

Choose the same time each day—for example, right before bed—and make it non-negotiable. Set a phone alarm if needed.

2

Jot two reflection lines

In a small journal, write one line on what went well and one line on a Chimp-hiccup you want to improve. Keep it brief.

3

Identify one Gremlin to replace

Spot a recurring unhelpful belief you noticed—“I should never slip up”—and draft a positive Autopilot to override it.

4

Highlight a micro success

End your session by celebrating a small win: “I spoke up calmly,” “I caught my Chimp fast.” This cements positive gains.

Reflection Questions

  • What single belief kept your Chimp busy today?
  • How might a two-line summary change tomorrow’s start?
  • Which micro-victory will you record tonight?

Personalization Tips

  • • After online classes: spend ten minutes noting one study tactic that helped and one that hindered you.
  • • For new parents: each evening, praise yourself for one small parenting win and one lesson learned.
  • • For entrepreneurs: after daily stand-ups, record a moment you led with logic not impulse.
The Chimp Paradox: The Acclaimed Mind Management Programme to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence and Happiness
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The Chimp Paradox: The Acclaimed Mind Management Programme to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence and Happiness

Steve Peters 2012
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