Turn Fear into Excitement with a Single Breath

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You’re moments from your first live-stream webinar and feel your heart pounding like a drum in your chest. The fear feels cold and heavy, squeezing your ribs. In this exact moment, you have a choice: fight the panic or transform it.
Sit quietly and place your hand on your heart. Notice the raw sensation of fear—its garlic-sharp tang in your throat and the jitter of your fingers. Breathe in slowly through your nose, imagining you’re breathing in possibility. Feel your belly open, then pause. As you exhale, let go of the tight knot in your chest, as if letting steam escape from a kettle. Whisper to yourself, “I release my resistance to this energy.”
On the next inhale, think, “This is excitement.” Feel the light fizz of anticipation replace the grit of apprehension. Your senses sharpen: you hear the faint rustle of papers, the soft hum of your laptop’s fan. The fear hasn’t vanished; it’s morphed into a focused charge that fuels your confidence. Neuroscience shows that controlled breathing activates your vagus nerve, flipping the switch from fight-or-flight to social engagement mode. You’re ready to begin.

When you feel fear swelling, close your eyes and focus on the raw sensation in your body. Breathe in fully through your nose and hold the breath for a moment. On the exhale, imagine the tightness dissolving and release your resistance silently. Then, as you inhale again, whisper “This is excitement” and welcome the tingling anticipation. Soon you’ll be using that very breath to propel yourself into powerful performance—give it a try before your next big moment.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll shift fear into positive arousal, improving your focus, resilience, and ability to perform under pressure. Externally, audiences and teams sense your calm energy and respond with confidence.

Breathe to Transform Fear into Energy

1

Feel the fear

When a rush of anxiety or dread hits, don’t fight it. Close your eyes and tune into the raw feeling in your body—notice its shape, temperature, and rhythm.

2

Take a full breath

Inhale deeply through your nose, expanding belly and chest. Imagine you’re breathing in the excitement you crave. Hold for a moment before exhaling.

3

Release resistance

On the exhale, picture the fear dissolving. Say silently, “I release my resistance to this energy,” and let your shoulders relax.

4

Reframe as excitement

As you continue breathing, think “This is excitement.” Notice how the feeling shifts from constriction to open, tingling anticipation.

Reflection Questions

  • What’s a recent fear you could reframe as excitement?
  • How does your body feel before and after a controlling breath?
  • In what daily situation can you practice this transformation tonight?

Personalization Tips

  • Before stepping onstage, a speaker notices jitters in the stomach, breathes deeply, and reframes the feeling as stage energy.
  • A student senses test anxiety, stops to breathe into the chest, then tells herself it’s mental alertness ready to help recall answers.
  • A soccer player’s heart pounds before a penalty kick; she takes a slow inhale, feels the blood flow as power, then steps forward confidently.
The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level
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The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level

Gay Hendricks 2009
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