Remove distractions and design mornings to protect your best thinking

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You don’t need more hours, you need fewer leaks. Every ping pulls your attention sideways, and it takes minutes to climb back. Start by making the bad stuff harder to reach. Delete the hot‑button apps or push them to a folder on page three. Turn off notifications that aren’t from humans. Put the phone in a drawer for your first block. You’ll be surprised how quickly your shoulders drop when nothing is tugging at you.

Now guard the morning. Write one to three musts and a short reason for each. “Draft two slides so we can decide by noon.” “Outline the intro so Sunday editing is easier.” Reasons focus the mind on outcomes, not effort. Then start the smallest step on the top must before checking inbox. A content lead told me she now gets her best thinking done before 9 a.m., because that’s when the office is quiet and her coffee is still hot.

Close with a boundary. Pick a stopping time and set an alarm. It feels strange at first, but ending on purpose compresses your day into what matters and gives your brain space to recover. One developer said the stop bell at 5:30 made him a better parent and a better coder the next morning. Ending clean beats endless.

This is systems work. You’re using environment design to reduce random rewards from apps, implementing deep‑work blocks when cognitive capacity is highest, and setting clear “why” statements to aim attention. A planned quitting time counters Parkinson’s Law, and the early start leverages the brain’s natural peak. The result is fewer leaks, more flow.

Start by stripping noise—delete a couple of traps and silence everything that isn’t a person. Tomorrow morning, write your 1–3 musts with a clear why and begin the smallest step before you open your inbox. Put your phone in another room for that first block, then set a quitting alarm to finish clean. You’ll feel your focus return faster than you expect. Try it for three mornings.

What You'll Achieve

Quieter attention, clearer priorities, and an earlier daily win. Expect fewer context switches, faster time to deep work, and a reliable end to the workday that improves recovery and next‑day focus.

Block noise, then plan musts

1

Delete or hide dopamine traps

Remove social apps from the home screen or phone. Turn off all non‑human notifications. Make focus the default.

2

Create a distraction‑free zone

For your first focus block, close your door, use do‑not‑disturb, or work in a quiet corner. Put your phone in another room.

3

Write 1–3 musts with a why

On paper, list the most important outcomes for today and why each matters. Start with the smallest step on the top must.

4

Plan a quitting time

Set a firm stop for work to fight Parkinson’s Law and protect recovery. Ending well helps you start well tomorrow.

Reflection Questions

  • Which two apps create the most random checks for you?
  • What are tomorrow’s top three musts and why do they matter?
  • Where will you put your phone during your first deep‑work block?
  • What time will you stop working today?

Personalization Tips

  • Remote work: Noise‑canceling headphones and a desk sign that says “Deep work until 9:30.”
  • School: Library table, phone in locker, and a sticky note with two musts and whys.
The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage
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The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage

Mel Robbins 2017
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