Practice until your delivery feels as natural as chatting with a friend

Medium - Requires some preparation Recommended

Imagine you’re about to deliver your big proposal. Your palms are sweaty and your voice wavers. Now picture yourself two weeks later, gliding through that exact same material, feeling as at ease as you do chatting over coffee with a colleague. How did you get there? You practiced—relentlessly. You recorded yourself until you spotted every um and ah. You invited friends to critique your pacing and gestures. You spoke in crowded cafés and empty boardrooms alike, proving nothing could throw you off your rhythm. Each repetition chipped away tension, turning nervous lines into natural conversational flow.

You’ve mapped out key areas for improvement and tested yourself in varied settings, so now it’s time to own your delivery. Run through your core message aloud, as though you’re catching up with an old friend. Speak slowly, pause after key points, and let your authentic voice shine. Keep refining until it feels effortless, and your audience will never guess how hard you worked. Give it a try before your next meeting.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll reduce anxiety, improve clarity, and project genuine confidence, making every presentation feel effortless. Externally, you’ll command greater respect from listeners and boost your credibility in any forum.

Rehearse like it’s your next dinner conversation

1

Record a short run-through

Set up your phone or camera and deliver three minutes of your talk. Watch it back and note filler words, pacing, and eye-contact lapses. Pay attention to what feels stiff.

2

Invite honest feedback

Share your recording with two colleagues or friends who will give you constructive critiques. Ask them to mark moments where you sound scripted or nervous so you can address those areas.

3

Rehearse in varied settings

Practice speaking in places other than your usual office—perhaps at home, in a café, or outdoors. This builds adaptability so you can stay conversational regardless of the venue.

Reflection Questions

  • Which part of your delivery feels most unnatural, and why?
  • Who in your circle can give you the toughest, most honest feedback?
  • How will you vary your practice settings to build resilience?

Personalization Tips

  • A startup founder practices her pitch in her living room, then at a coworking space, to mirror potential investor settings.
  • A teacher rehearses her lesson in a quiet classroom, then in a bustling corridor, preparing for real-world distractions.
  • A project lead runs through key talking points by the coffee machine and on a park bench to simulate impromptu team discussions.
Talk Like TED: The 9 Public-Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds
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Talk Like TED: The 9 Public-Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds

Carmine Gallo 2014
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