Be Present to Stop Suffering at Its Source

Medium - Requires some preparation Recommended

You’re hammering away at your keyboard when suddenly your pulse skips a beat. You’re late! The meeting will start in five minutes, and you haven’t prepared. Panic rises, knocking you out of the present moment. But if you stopped and took just one slow breath—feeling the chair beneath your thighs, hearing the hum of your computer fan—you’d find safety. The past is gone. The future hasn’t arrived. All that truly exists is this single breath, this single click of keys. A moment of presence can restore peace in as little as three seconds.

Science calls it ‘psychic entropy’ when your mind drifts into worry. Harvard research shows over 50% of our waking thoughts aren’t about what’s actually happening. Worse, they’re skewed toward negativity, looping through past regrets and future fears. But mindfulness research confirms a simple cure: anchoring your awareness back to the here and now shuts down those unhelpful patterns. Your brain waves shift, stress hormones drop, and suddenly you see your work and your world with fresh eyes.

This awareness practice is your seatbelt against the roller coaster of modern life. Over time, by training your attention to return to the present—through breath, senses, or a grounding object—you’ll find life flows more easily. You’ll be sharper, calmer, and more creative, even in the busiest moments.

When stress hits next, gently slow down. Notice the weight of your feet, the air brushing your skin, the distant city sounds. Drop every regret and every forecast—this moment needs just you. Keep up this anchor practice for ten seconds, then return to your day with renewed clarity and calm. Try it on your commute home—you might just find you’re already at your destination, mind intact and heart at ease.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll break free from painful rumination and reduce anxiety symptoms, gaining a stable calm. Externally, you’ll improve focus, decision-making, and relationships by responding thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively.

Anchor yourself in the present

1

Do five-sense scans

Several times today, pause and list five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste. Fully immerse in these sensations.

2

Notice time stamps

When you catch negative self-talk, ask if it’s about the past or future. Then say, ‘Not now,’ and drop it to return to the moment.

3

Use an object as a tether

Carry a smooth stone or bracelet. Whenever you touch it, let it remind you to zoom back into this exact moment—breathing, open senses, calm mind.

Reflection Questions

  • What past regret or future worry have I been rehearsing today?
  • How did I feel when I fully engaged my senses just now?
  • How can I build a 5-second presence habit before each meeting?

Personalization Tips

  • While waiting for a bus, scan your senses instead of scrolling on your phone.
  • When you catch yourself worrying about tomorrow’s presentation, pinpoint that it isn’t now and refocus.
  • At dinner, enjoy each bite mindfully—notice taste, texture, and temperature.
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Solve for Happy: Engineer Your Path to Joy

Mo Gawdat 2017
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