The Long Game of Influencer Outreach That Pays Off Big

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When Global Citizen Year wanted to break through the noise, CEO Abby Falik turned to journalist Nick Kristof. Instead of a cold email, she started small—retweeting his articles on global education. Each mention included a personal note: “Loved your point on gap years as leadership training.” Over the next few weeks, she shared alumni stories on her blog, tagging him directly. These small public endorsements led him to notice her mission.

One morning Kristof retweeted a powerful student essay from GCF, sending a thousand clicks to their site. Later, Abby messaged him—no ask for major support, just a friendly thank-you and invitation to speak at their next event. Within days, Kristof agreed, and the public endorsement elevated Global Citizen Year’s credibility.

Psychologically, this approach hinges on the principle of reciprocity: by adding value first, you invite a natural response. It also plays into social proof: when a respected influencer signals approval, others follow.

This isn’t overnight celebrity tagging. It’s a deliberate, respectful, long-term path—one public share at a time—that builds trust and leads to real partnerships.

First, pick five influencers whose work genuinely resonates with your mission, and follow their social channels. Then, every week, engage by commenting or resharing their best pieces with your own insights. After several meaningful interactions, tag them in a post highlighting their work and your takeaways. When the moment feels right, slide into their DMs to suggest a small collaboration. Keep it friendly and focused on shared value.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll develop a patient, strategic mindset for relationship building. Externally, you’ll gain high-profile endorsements that boost your credibility and reach new audiences.

Cultivate Influencer Relationships Slowly

1

Identify relevant influencers.

List 5–10 thought leaders in your niche who engage your ideal audience and have a track record of quality content.

2

Engage publicly first.

Retweet or comment thoughtfully on their posts 2–3 times a week—mention a key insight or share how it inspired you.

3

Share their work.

Publish a post that highlights one of their articles or videos, tagging them and adding your own takeaway.

4

Extend a private invite.

After a few weeks of public engagement, send a direct message or email proposing a small collaboration—co-author a post, join a live chat, or offer to guest on their podcast.

Reflection Questions

  • Which three influencers would most amplify your message if they noticed you?
  • What unique insight can you share when engaging with their posts?
  • How will you follow up after your first public engagement?

Personalization Tips

  • A bakery owner retweets a local food blogger’s pastry review, then invites her to taste and feature a new croissant.
  • A coach highlights a leadership expert’s article on LinkedIn, then asks for a 15-minute virtual meeting to discuss mutual interests.
  • A yoga studio reposts a wellness influencer’s mindfulness video and later invites her to lead a free workshop for members.
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Social Media Success for Every Brand: The Five StoryBrand Pillars That Turn Posts Into Profits

Claire Díaz-Ortiz 2019
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