Small gratitude practices can outpace life’s hedonic treadmill

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At a fast-growing startup, stress and burnout were the norm. HR noticed high turnover despite lucrative salaries and perks. After surveying employees, they discovered a happiness gap: people rarely paused to enjoy real wins. That’s when they launched a simple gratitude challenge—three good shouts each evening in Slack for a month.

Engineers shared breakthroughs; marketers celebrated small client wins; operations hailed the team for smoother logistics. Then each night, everyone wrote their own three gratitudes with brief reflections on how they felt. Leaders also practiced reliving each “win” for ten seconds in their morning stand-ups.

In just six weeks, employee well-being surveys showed a 25 percent increase in reported life satisfaction and a 40 percent drop in midday stress levels. Even productivity ticked up modestly as people felt more engaged with their work. By the next quarter, voluntary attrition halved.

This case proves that a tiny cultural shift—shifting focus from constant pursuit to daily recognition of goodness—can dramatically improve morale. By building small, consistent gratitude habits, the company rewired its collective mindset, counteracting the hedonic treadmill of ever-higher targets. A stifled work culture learned to breathe and celebrate small joys, and discovered how sustainable success really begins with simple, daily appreciation.

Every evening, pause for two minutes to jot down three things that went well today and how they made you feel—proud, surprised, thankful. Then choose one and plan a two-minute celebration tomorrow—coffee with a friend, a brisk hallway stroll, or just a quiet moment of appreciation. These rituals invite your brain to savor positives and build stronger neural pathways for lasting happiness. Try it tonight and note your outlook tomorrow morning.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll boost your baseline happiness through regular gratitude practice, increase resilience to stress, and foster a more positive, engaged team culture.

Savor moments to boost lasting happiness

1

Journal three positive events nightly

Each evening, write down three good things that genuinely happened today—no matter how small. This rewires your brain’s reward circuits, raising your happiness baseline.

2

Relive each moment fully

Spend twenty seconds recalling each positive event. Picture the details—colors, textures, sounds—and let yourself feel the same warmth you felt then.

3

Write your emotional reaction

Next to each event in your journal, note how it made you feel. Label emotions like “pride,” “joy,” or “relief” to deepen neural connections between event and feeling.

4

Plan a small repeat reward

Pick one positive event and schedule a mini-celebration—an extra cup of tea, a walk in the park, or a friendly text thank-you. Reinforcing pleasure cements it.

Reflection Questions

  • What three good things did you observe today, however small?
  • How did they make you feel in the moment?
  • Which event do you want to relive fully tomorrow?
  • What micro-celebration will you plan to reinforce that joy?
  • How might regular gratitude check-ins change your team’s mood?

Personalization Tips

  • After closing a big deal, savor the buyer’s handshake and plan a reconnection lunch later this week.
  • When your child hugs you unexpectedly, close your eyes and replay that warmth for ten seconds.
  • Enjoy a delicious meal? Sketch the colors on a napkin and save it for tomorrow’s journal.
  • Receive a compliment? Text yourself that line and reread it tomorrow morning.
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Rewire: Change Your Brain to Break Bad Habits, Overcome Addictions, Conquer Self-Destructive Behavior

Richard O'Connor 2014
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