Build an alter ego to unleash hidden reserves

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By the time you’ve struggled through countless failures and outlasted every plate-loading, uphill sprint, it dawns on you: your own doubts have boxed you in more than any external obstacle. So you summon another you—call it your alter ego—someone unconquerable, hungry, relentless. You give it a name. In my case, I dubbed mine "Goggins," the grim-faced lab rat who refused to die. Then you list its qualities: unstoppable will, coiled like a spring; laser focus, never side-tracked; genuine hunger for suffering, turning pain into power. Next, you anchor that persona with a simple ritual—say, a rapid glance at your wristwatch and a whispered mantra. When you feel your old self teetering, gasping in the kill zone of self-pity or fear, you echo Goggins’s name and step into those traits. Suddenly, you find more oxygen, more muscle, more everything. It feels like you’re running on stolen adrenaline, and people wonder how you flipped the switch. Psychologists call this identity priming: when you invoke a powerful self-image, your mind and body rise to match it. It’s not magic, though it plays like it. It’s the art of recruiting your own hidden reserves.

Pick a name that captures your strongest self. List three traits you need—unshakeable resolve, pinpoint focus, raw drive. Link them to real moments when you shone. Create a pre-task ritual—an armband click or whispered cue—so your mind knows to shift gears. Next time you hit the wall, call on your persona. Watch your performance soar.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll tap into deeper reserves of confidence and focus by leveraging a clear, actionable self-image. Internally, you’ll feel primed for challenges; externally, your performance will reflect the traits of your ideal alter ego.

Design your performance persona

1

Name your alter ego

Pick a title that embodies your strongest self—"The Strategist," "Iron Reed," or "Shadow Runner." Choose a concrete label you can invoke anytime.

2

Define its traits

List three qualities this persona holds—fearlessness under fire, laser focus, relentless drive—and tie each to a real-world skill or story from your past.

3

Anchor with a ritual

Create a pre-task ritual: wear a special band or play a short theme song. This signal helps your mind switch from everyday mode to alter-ego mode.

4

Invoke it under duress

When you hit a wall, silently call your alter ego’s name. Step into those defined traits and watch how your behavior shifts to match your ideal self.

Reflection Questions

  • What name best captures the ultimate version of yourself?
  • Which three traits define that persona?
  • How will you signal your mind to switch into alter-ego mode?
  • When and where will you invoke your alter ego first?
  • How will you track its impact on your performance?

Personalization Tips

  • Before a big meeting, the negotiator imagines themselves as "The Closer," calm and articulate under pressure.
  • A student about to present calls in "Brain Bolt," their persona for clarity and poise.
  • An athlete dons their lucky armband to become "Iron Reed," unmoved by fatigue or competition.
Never Finished: Unshackle Your Mind and Win the War Within
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Never Finished: Unshackle Your Mind and Win the War Within

David Goggins 2022
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