Map Your Life Using Three Core Questions

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Deep inside, we each carry a GPS guiding us toward an intended destination, yet without input it sits silent. The remedy is three simple questions that power any effective Life Plan. First: Who do you want to be remembered as? This is your North Star. Next: What matters most right now? These are your major waypoints—your health, relationships, or calling. Finally: How do you bridge the gap? A clear action for each waypoint completes the route.

Think of these questions like setting up a navigation system in a rental car. You wouldn’t hit the road without an address. In the same way, your Life Plan’s efficacy depends on clear coordinates. By defining your legacy, priorities, and initial steps, you channel intention into everyday choices.

Behavioral science confirms that people who articulate their goals in writing and connect them to personally meaningful why-statements are significantly more likely to follow through. The act of mapping these three elements engages both your conscious planning center and your motivational drives.

With your answers in hand, the rest of your plan—your specific commitments, review schedule, and accountability—falls into place. You’ve just unlocked the power to navigate life with purpose rather than drift.

Answer who you want to be remembered as, prioritize your three biggest life areas, and jot one concrete action for each—whether it’s meal prepping for health or weekly date nights for your relationship. This simple map will light up your path ahead.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll gain internal clarity and motivation, releasing the frustration of aimlessness. Externally, you’ll commit to practical next steps that produce steady progress across your top priorities.

Answer Your Life’s Big Three

1

Ask how you want remembered

Write a brief statement starting “I want people to remember me for…” This connects you to your deeper mission.

2

List top three priorities

Identify what matters most—health, relationships, career—and rank them. Knowing your hierarchy stops you from overcommitting.

3

Outline the path forward

For each priority, jot one action that moves you closer—like weekly runs for health, date nights for marriage, or a professional course for career.

Reflection Questions

  • What single sentence describes your ideal legacy?
  • Which three life areas demand your focus right now?
  • What one small action could you take today for each priority?

Personalization Tips

  • A software engineer defines her legacy as empowering women in tech, prioritizes mentorship, skill-building, and networking, then signs up for a speaking workshop.
  • A fitness coach commits to being remembered for inspiring healthy habits, lists nutrition, training, and rest, and plans a daily meal prep routine.
  • A musician writes his legacy as bringing joy through songs, ranks practice, performance, and promotion, and blocks morning hours for composing.
Living Forward: A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want
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Living Forward: A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want

Michael Hyatt, Daniel Harkavy 2016
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