Adapt your leadership to each person’s journey
Situational Leadership II reveals that there is no single ‘best’ leadership style. Instead, the key is to adapt your approach to match where someone is on their development journey. Imagine two employees: Alex just joined your marketing team and has boundless enthusiasm but little practical know-how—an enthusiastic beginner. Jamie, in contrast, has years of analytics experience but has grown wary of new data platforms—a disillusioned learner. Research dating back to Hersey and Blanchard in the 1960s shows that directing behavior—clear instructions, tight supervision—is most effective for those with low competence but high commitment, like Alex. Meanwhile, coaching—two-way dialogue, encouragement, and feedback—helps disillusioned learners regain confidence and skill.
As team members grow into capable performers and eventually self-reliant achievers, your style should transition to supporting—listening and empowering—and ultimately to delegation, entrusting them with full responsibility. This progressive matching sustains motivation while building competence. Studies indicate that mismatches—over- or under-supervision—result in frustration or abandonment. It’s akin to teaching someone to swim: you wouldn’t shout ‘swim!’ at someone who has never been in water. Instead, you’d start at the edge, guide them gently, then let go when they glide confidently.
By using research-backed leadership matching, you unlock the potential of each individual, leading teams that learn faster, innovate more, and deliver results consistently.
Face each team member’s learning curve by diagnosing their current skill and confidence. Offer clear directions to newcomers and two-way coaching to those who have slipped. When they’re ready, loosen the reins with supporting words and eventually delegate fully, trusting them to soar. This way, you’ll adapt your leadership for the strongest performance at every stage of growth.
What You'll Achieve
You’ll build a dynamic team where each person receives the guidance and encouragement they truly need, boosting individual growth and team productivity. Externally, this results in faster onboarding, stronger collaboration, and consistent goal achievement.
Match your style to team maturity
Assess competence and commitment
For each person or goal, rate their skill level and their interest or confidence. Note areas where they’re new versus experienced but unsure.
Choose the right leadership style
Use high direction for newcomers and high support for those who need encouragement. Shift toward delegation as competence and confidence grow.
Get permission for styles
Ask, ‘Do you agree I guide you through each step?’ or ‘Shall I step back and let you decide?’ Confirm before changing your approach.
Hold progress check-ins
Schedule brief, regular meetings—weekly for high direction or monthly for delegation—to praise progress, share feedback, and adjust your support.
Reflection Questions
- Which team member might need more direction or support right now, and how could you adjust?
- When did you last ask a colleague for permission to change your approach—and what happened?
- How can you structure your next progress-check meeting to deepen trust and performance?
Personalization Tips
- At home, a parent teaching a teen to drive starts with step-by-step guidance, then coaching during practice, then sits back as the teen gains confidence.
- A manager assigns a new salesperson to shadow veteran reps at every stage, then lets them take calls with guidance, later stepping aside when they shine on their own.
- A coach teaching karate adjusts from directing foot positioning to encouraging a nearly black-belt student to test new moves independently.
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