I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working

Powerful life lessons on self-compassion curiosity and resilient living for the winding roads ahead

Shauna Niequist

2022

8 Key Insights

About This Book

In Still Yes, you’ll journey through the wild, messy, and unpredictable landscape of life’s unexpected twists—from career upheaval and identity crises to chronic pain and lockdown loneliness. Through first‐person reflections and actionable practices, you’ll learn how curiosity and beginner’s mind can open fresh possibilities, how self‐compassion fuels deep transformation, and why true resilience is born from getting back up again and again. Vivid stories of city streets, kitchen tables, and sleepless nights will guide you toward small, powerful shifts that help you rebuild hope, discover new rhythms of joy, and embrace life—no matter where you are in the journey.

About the Author

The author is a seasoned writer and mother of two whose honest, heartfelt voice has inspired thousands to notice the sacred in everyday life. With decades of experience teaching writing workshops and speaking on resilience, self‐compassion, and spiritual practices, she brings a blend of lived wisdom and practical guidance. Her work has appeared in major publications and she’s known for weaving authentic storytelling with actionable steps that readers can apply immediately to spark meaningful change.

Biggest Takeaway

By embracing these insights, you’ll: • Cultivate self‐compassion that replaces shame with kindness, fueling lasting change. • Develop resilient rhythms that carry you through grief, loss, and uncertainty with renewed strength. • Practice beginner’s mind and curiosity to unlock fresh perspectives and creative breakthroughs. • Set healthy boundaries in digital life, protecting your focus and emotional energy. • Build spiritual and emotional practices—like active prayer and intentional hospitality—that nourish lasting connection and purpose.