Genetics Aren’t Forever Your Daily Choices Matter

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Imagine your DNA as a deck of cards you're dealt at birth. For years, you played that hand without question, certain your genes sealed your fate—anxious, tired, or stuck. But modern research shows those cards aren’t set in stone; they’re plastic. Each choice you make—what you eat, how you breathe, where you live—shuffles the deck again.

Think of a marathon runner born in a family prone to diabetes. By choosing a daily jog, eating whole foods, and managing stress, they rewrite their genetic story bit by bit. It’s not magic—it’s epigenetics at work, genes switching on and off in response to environment.

That means your body is not an immovable monument carved at birth; it’s a living canvas. The more you practice new, tiny habits—ten minutes of walking or an extra glass of water—your cells respond. Over time, your mood lifts, inflammation subsides, and old ‘genetic excuses’ lose their power.

So next time you catch yourself blaming your DNA, pause. You’re holding the brush. You can paint a new picture, one small stroke at a time.

Turn that list of genetic excuses into daily power moves: each morning, read your new belief—‘I’m more than my DNA’—and follow it with one tiny habit shift, whether it’s a glass of water first thing or a quick power walk. Then, tonight, review your notes and feel how those small strokes of change are creating a brighter canvas for tomorrow.

What You'll Achieve

By practicing these steps, you’ll strengthen your belief in personal agency, reduce inflammation, and boost your mood. You’ll see measurable health gains—more energy, better sleep, fewer sugar cravings—and feel empowered by real change to your biology.

Shuffle Your Genetic Deck Each Morning

1

Identify one belief about your genes

Spend two minutes listing a genetic excuse you’ve used (e.g., ‘My family has anxiety, so I always will’). Note it without judgment—just observe what you catch yourself saying.

2

Reframe the excuse as a choice

Choose one statement like ‘I have more power than my DNA.’ Write it down three times on a sticky note and place it where you’ll see it every morning.

3

Track one change daily

Pick a tiny new habit—switch soda for water, add a green veg at dinner, or take a five-minute walk. Jot down the habit and a quick note on how you felt afterward.

4

Reflect weekly on your progress

At week’s end, spend five minutes reviewing your habit log. Celebrate what you changed—and how your body or mood shifted.

Reflection Questions

  • Which genetic excuses have you told yourself most often?
  • How does it feel to reframe ‘can’t change’ into ‘I choose to change’?
  • What tiny habit could you add tomorrow that signals control over your health?

Personalization Tips

  • In the office, swap your mid-afternoon energy drink for herbal tea, then notice if your afternoon slump eases.
  • As a parent, teach your child ‘My choices shape me,’ and model eating one veggie at a time each dinner.
  • Before study sessions, take three deep breaths and remind yourself ‘I’m more than my test scores.’
How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
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How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

Nicole LePera 2021
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