Establish a personal funds test to supercharge your giving

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María was a marketing manager who noticed she spent $50 every weekend on coffee, brunch, and streaming rentals. She felt proud of the half-a- million-dollar company charity match program and gave occasionally, but never consistently.

Diving into the data, she logged a week of her own receipts—hers was a flood of $20 lunch tacos, $15 Netflix add-on channel fees, and $12 late-night snack runs. She separated necessities (rent, utilities, groceries) from discretionary treats—then saw a sizable pool of “extras.”

Applying a simple formula, María resolved to donate half of her monthly extras—roughly $120—to two charities she cared about. Watching her charitable impact statements roll in, she realized she felt a fresh sense of purpose, and fellow managers began asking how she balanced generosity with her budget.

Behavioral economics research shows that visualizing spending as categories—green for needs, red for wants—shifts mindsets toward more intentional purchasing and can double charitable contributions without deep personal sacrifices.

You’ve separated needs from wants and uncovered exactly how much you spend on extras each week. Now pledge to give half of that sum—no more, no less—to causes you care about. Treat it like a recurring cost, just as fixed as rent or utilities. By making your giving systematic, you’ll see how small adjustments in your discretionary spending translate into real help for others. Start tracking and decide your first donation tonight.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll build a sustainable giving habit, turning everyday discretionary spending into measurable social impact while maintaining your desired lifestyle.

Audit your weekly wants

1

Track one week of spending

Save every receipt or take quick photos of each transaction for seven days. Include coffee runs, apps, streaming, snacks, and impulse buys.

2

Identify necessity versus luxury

Mark essential expenses (groceries, rent, bills) with a green dot. Mark anything purely discretionary—subscriptions, entertainment, impulse treats—with a red dot.

3

Calculate your ‘luxury sum’

Add up all the red items; that total is your moral opportunity cost. It shows what you could redirect without changing your basic lifestyle.

4

Choose a giving goal

Commit to donating at least 50% of that ‘luxury sum’ this month to a vetted cause. Even half of your extras can save lives or fund critical services.

Reflection Questions

  • How did you feel seeing your discretionary spending laid bare?
  • Which small cut in extras could free up more funds for giving next week?
  • What causes resonate with you enough to receive your new charity budget?
  • How will you remind yourself weekly to redirect those funds?

Personalization Tips

  • If you log $45 in daily lattes, decide to donate $22 to a hunger relief nonprofit this week.
  • After tallying $30 on movie rentals, split that between two causes: $15 to veterans’ support and $15 to environmental conservation.
  • If impulsive app purchases run you $12 in a week, put $6 toward a local community fund for struggling families.
How to Be Perfect: The Correct Answer to Every Moral Question
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How to Be Perfect: The Correct Answer to Every Moral Question

Michael Schur 2022
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