Build habits that boost your energy and fuel big goals

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You know how you struggle to focus when you’re dehydrated or hangry? Your brain can’t perform rocket science when it’s begging for water or a snack. Habit foundations—hydration, movement, gratitude—act like premium fuel that powers every engine in your life, from productivity to resilience.

Take hydration. When you steady-sip water throughout the day, you flush out mental fog and stress chemicals. An extra 20 ounces can mean the difference between dragging through an afternoon slump and charging ahead with laser focus. We underestimate how much good water does for our mood and our metabolism.

Then there’s movement. Even a brief daily walk or a few sets of jumping jacks revs up endorphins that sharpen cognition and reduce anxiety. When you crave a break, opting for five minutes of stretching instead of doom-scrolling flips on a switch in your brain—shifting from fatigue to flow.

Gratitude, finally, rewires your neural pathways. Noticing small joys—like the smell of fresh coffee or the sun on your cheeks—increases dopamine by 25%. Science calls this savoring. When you celebrate the little wins, your mind starts scanning for more positives, eroding stress and building a reservoir of optimism.

These habits aren’t just feel-good fluff. They form the triad of vitality you need to tackle ambitious goals. Before you plan your week or outline your next big project, cement these foundations. You’ll discover that every giant leap feels lighter when you’re fueled for it.

Tonight, pick up a notebook and list ten things you appreciated today—big or small. Then drink a glass of water, refill, and set an hourly alarm to hydrate all day tomorrow. Finally, schedule a 30-minute movement session in your calendar—whether it’s a walk, a dance break, or yoga. With gratitude, water, and motion as your base, you’ll show up energized to build whatever future you envision.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll boost daily energy, improve focus, and lower stress by up to 40%. Internally, you’ll cultivate optimism and resilience. Externally, those clear, hydrated mornings will translate into sharper decisions and faster progress on your goals.

Forge health foundations first

1

Start a gratitude list

Each evening, jot down ten small wins or moments of joy you experienced. This trains your brain to notice positives and primes you for optimism tomorrow.

2

Hydrate before everything

Drink half your body weight (in ounces) of water every day. Carry a refillable bottle and set hourly alarms until it’s a habit—it flushes toxins and amplifies mental clarity.

3

Move your body daily

Choose a 30-minute activity you love—walking, dancing, yoga—and schedule it like a meeting. Consistency releases endorphins and builds stamina for your goals.

Reflection Questions

  • What small moment are you grateful for right now?
  • How much water did you drink today and how did it affect your focus?
  • Which movement breaks brighten your day the most?

Personalization Tips

  • A writer transforms midnight snacks into gratitude journaling and water breaks to fuel creativity.
  • A CEO substitutes soda with water in client lunches and starts each day with a 20-minute walk.
  • A mom trades one TV episode for a short family workout and ends each night by listing three reasons she’s proud of her day.
Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
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Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals

Rachel Hollis 2019
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