Hustling isn’t a choice—it’s your superpower

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There’s a photo of me in orange glittery heels and a black power suit standing on a stage before a roaring crowd. That night, I’d just delivered a keynote I never thought I had the guts to give. A decade earlier, I was buried under piles of paperwork, too terrified to tell anyone about my dreams. I thought ambition was for other people—men, daredevils, the ‘born leaders.’ Then I realized the fires in my belly weren’t a mistake; they were my calling. I began to state my goals out loud, even if it felt ridiculous. I told friends I wanted a #1 bestseller on the New York Times list. Every time I did, I felt both exposed and energized. I took tiny steps—logged 500 words at 5:00 a.m., pitched editors, and studied book proposals until 2:00 a.m. Daily rituals became my anchor: I’d write 200 words before breakfast, connect with a mentor over lunch, and read two chapters of a craft book before dinner. Was it glamorous? No. Was it terrifying? Absolutely. But every micro-win fanned the flame. My hustle was not frantic chaos—it was the engine fueling a dream that was, for too long, silenced. I might have looked like I had it all together, but the real change was inside: I gave myself permission to desire more, and I refused to let that spark die.

Speak your big, bold goal out loud to someone who’ll cheer it on. Jot down three tiny actions you can do today and do them—no excuses. Then wrap up each day with two new hustle rituals: one call, one draft, one pitch, one training session. Over time, these small fires merge into a wildfire that carries you past every fear and obstacle. Believe in your hustle.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll activate a consistent momentum toward your dreams, building confidence and reducing procrastination. Internally, you’ll feel courageous and energized; externally, you’ll produce measurable steps daily that lead to big breakthroughs.

Ignite your fire with bold goals

1

State your biggest goal out loud

Speak your loudest ambition to a friend or record yourself. Verbalizing it builds momentum and makes it real, dissolving the fear of sounding ‘crazy.’

2

Break it into micro-actions

Identify three tiny first steps—research, reach out, or write—that you can begin immediately. Small wins fan the flame of motivation.

3

Commit to daily hustle rituals

Pick two habits to do every day—5 push-ups, ten phone calls, or thirty minutes of learning—in service of your main goal. Consistency compounds into massive progress.

Reflection Questions

  • What is the one bold ambition you’ve never voiced aloud?
  • Which three micro-actions could kickstart your hustle this afternoon?
  • How will you protect time each day for your hustle rituals?

Personalization Tips

  • A teacher wanting to start a podcast records a 60-second introduction immediately after class.
  • A yoga instructor aiming to open a studio reaches out to three landlords today.
  • A graphic designer dreaming of a book deal writes 200 words every morning on her memoir.
Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
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Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals

Rachel Hollis 2019
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