Friendship in the Age of Loneliness: An Optimist's Guide to Connection

How to Reclaim Real Connection When Tech Keeps Us Apart

Adam Smiley Poswolsky

2021

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About This Book

In a world where we’re more connected online than ever, real friendship can feel out of reach. This guide takes you on a journey from isolated scrolling to energized, face-to-face play, helping you rediscover the joy of spontaneous dance parties, handwritten letters, and shared adventures. Backed by the latest research in social psychology, you’ll learn simple rituals—from weekly gratitude calls to talent exchanges—that transform acquaintances into lifelong allies. Whether you’re swamped by work or stuck in a digital haze, you’ll unlock practices that fit your busy life and spark genuine bonds, reminding you why human connection is our greatest gift.

About the Author

A lifelong advocate for real-world connection, the author has led hundreds of friendship experiments—from digital-free summer camps to community dinners—while interviewing loneliness experts, psychologists, and community builders. With thousands of Facebook friends but a deeper circle of confidants, they have guided professionals, students, and new parents alike to turn technology into a tool for togetherness, not distraction.

Biggest Takeaway

• Rediscover the spark of authentic play to break down barriers and inject joy into everyday moments. • Build deeper, more resilient friendships by mastering emotional bandwidth checks and slow-build strategies. • Harness rituals—from Shabbat pauses to virtual cooking clubs—that foster trust and give every connection purpose. • Reduce loneliness and boost well-being through proven techniques like gratitude calls, talent exchanges, and community-wide ‘Agents of Connection.’ • Learn to repair broken bonds and design a personalized friendship map to prioritize the people who matter most.

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