Reconnect With True Appetite Signals to End Overeating

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You’ve heard of babies who stop eating when they’re done, but most adults lose that gift. Months of diets, meal rules, and car-snacks teach us to override the one thing that always knew the answer: our appestat, the appetite control center in our brains. You start a meal, chew a few bites, and your body sends an “I’m satisfied” signal—yet you keep eating because the clock says dinner time or the plate looks half full. True appetite correction reconnects you to that ancient wisdom. Picture your last meal. Do you recall a moment when eating felt effortless and you could have sworn you were full? That’s your body’s satiety hormone leptin doing its job. When you pause mid-bite, let your senses tune in to how warm the plate feels, how you taste every bite, and how the urge to keep chewing fades. Five minutes later, you’ll notice either hunger or the gentle sigh of satisfaction, and you can stop. Over time, these pauses rewire your appestat, giving you back the power to eat until satisfied, not stuffed.

Plate a modest portion and pause five minutes into your meal. Notice the first sign of “enough”—perhaps a soft exhale or the flavor dimming. Trust that moment and close your window on calories without guilt; you’re training your appestat to guide you effortlessly.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll banish constant food fears, trust your natural “I’ve had enough” signals, and break free from overeating compulsion.

Practice Sigh-and-Pause Eating

1

Plate a smaller portion

When you fill half your plate and pause, it’s easier to notice that first sigh of contentment. Start smaller than you think you need and trust your satiety signals.

2

Pause mid-meal

Set a timer for five minutes after your first bite. Stop, breathe, and feel how full you are. This pause allows your hypothalamus to catch up with your stomach.

3

Note the sigh

Listen for your body’s satisfied exhale or relaxed shoulders. That’s your appestat telling you you’ve had enough—step away instead of finishing the plate.

Reflection Questions

  • When did you last trust your body’s “stop eating” voice?
  • What was your body’s response after your first pause?
  • How can you remember to pause at your next meal?

Personalization Tips

  • Remote worker: Pause your midday sandwich halfway and stretch, noticing the first satisfaction sigh.
  • Active teen: After half your pasta bowl, take a water break and check if you feel full.
  • Busy parent: Sit quietly five minutes into dinner before offering seconds to your plate.
Fast, Feast, Repeat: The Comprehensive Guide to Delay, Don't Deny® Intermittent Fasting
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Fast, Feast, Repeat: The Comprehensive Guide to Delay, Don't Deny® Intermittent Fasting

Gin Stephens 2020
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