When everything is on fire, narrow to one fire and move

Medium - Requires some preparation Recommended

Your heart kicks when three problems arrive at once. Slack pings like popcorn, your manager asks for an update, and a customer reports an outage. The cursor blinks back at you while your phone buzzes on the desk. This is the moment when panic writes your plan, unless you write it first.

You take two slow breaths and say, quietly, “Outage, comms, deadline.” You scan the dashboards and see error rates spiking, a plausible rollback path, and ten unanswered messages. You choose the outage. A ten‑minute rollback would restore service and buy time. You DM your teammate, “Rolling back, status in 10,” and post the same in the incident channel. The noise level drops a notch.

The rollback completes, error rates fall, and your shoulders do too. You re‑run the loop: breathe, label, scan. Now the highest‑impact item is communication, so you post a brief update and next steps. You note the deadline, decide it can slip one hour, and tell your manager. It’s not perfect, but you’re steering. The screen glow softens as your nervous system catches up.

This is deliberate attention under stress. Breathing plus labeling reduces emotional hijack. Prioritize and Execute is a behavioral triage that respects limited cognitive bandwidth. Short sprints and status updates lower uncertainty for others, which lowers your own load. Rotating prevents target fixation, where you miss the shifting priority. It’s mindful leadership in 90‑second cycles.

When pressure spikes, take two slow breaths and name the three biggest problems to widen attention. Pick the one that, if improved in ten minutes, unlocks the most and run a short focused sprint on it. Tell the key people what you’re doing so they stop guessing. Then reassess, breathe again, and rotate your focus if something else has become the top fire. Keep looping until the environment calms. Try it the next time your notifications start piling up.

What You'll Achieve

Internally, shift from panic to purposeful action and reduce cognitive overload. Externally, restore service faster, lower stakeholder anxiety with clear updates, and prevent secondary errors.

Use a 90‑second triage loop

1

Breathe, label, and scan

Take two slow breaths, name the top problems, and look around. This calms the amygdala and widens attention.

2

Pick the highest‑impact problem

Ask, “What, if fixed in 10 minutes, unlocks the most?” Decide quickly to avoid paralysis.

3

Commit a short sprint and update

Run a focused 10‑minute push on that issue, then tell stakeholders what you’re doing to reduce noise.

4

Reassess and rotate

Repeat the loop, shifting as priorities change. Don’t get target‑fixated.

Reflection Questions

  • What cue tells me I’m target‑fixated and need to reassess?
  • Who are the minimum stakeholders I should update during a sprint?
  • What 10‑minute action usually unlocks the most in my domain?

Personalization Tips

  • Home: Dinner burns, the toddler cries, and the doorbell rings. You turn off the stove, pick up the child, and text ‘2 mins’ to the guest.
  • Work: Deploy breaks, chat explodes, the boss pings. You roll back, post a status, then re‑open investigation.
Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win
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Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win

Jocko Willink, Leif Babin 2015
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