The Two Words That Turn Social Proof into Instant Compliance

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A small online retailer struggled to convince buyers to try its new subscription box. In their marketing meeting, Carla suggested a shift: “Most subscribers pick the quarterly box because it offers the best value.”

They updated the website banner with that line. Within days, subscription pickup rose by 25%. Shoppers felt reassured—if most others chose it, it must be right.

This wasn’t luck. Social psychologist Robert Cialdini described this as the principle of consensus: people look to others for cues on acceptable behavior. By invoking “most people,” Carla leveraged conformity to guide choices.

The case shows how a simple label of majority behavior reduces decision anxiety and speeds choices. When you describe what the group does, you remove uncertainty and let people follow the herd toward your preferred outcome.

To use this, list the top actions your peers take, then open with “Most people...” and state the behavior. Position your recommendation as the majority’s choice. Observe as people align automatically. This technique uses social proof to guide decisions quickly and subtly. Employ it in your next proposal.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll harness social proof to shift choices, reduce decision fatigue, and guide people toward your recommended path. Internally you’ll recognize group dynamics; externally choices will default to your best option.

Deploy Majority Influence with 'Most People'

1

List peer behaviors

Identify what most people like your audience typically do, such as “Most teams run weekly sprints.”

2

Preface with “Most people”

Start your statement with these words to tap into conformity bias and group identity.

3

Emphasize your favored option

Present your recommended action as the one adopted by the majority, making it feel like the safe choice.

4

Monitor alignment

Watch how listeners nod or lean forward, signaling their readiness to follow the crowd.

Reflection Questions

  • What majority behaviors can you leverage in your context?
  • How does social proof influence your own decisions?
  • Which group identity resonates most with your audience?

Personalization Tips

  • In recruitment: “Most applicants accept roles within two weeks.”
  • In consumer sales: “Most customers upgrade to the premium plan.”
  • In wellness programs: “Most participants complete all four sessions.”
Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact
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Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact

Phil M. Jones 2017
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