Beliefs reshape reality so question your mind’s hard wiring

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In the 1970s, psychologists found that placing black dots far apart on a sheet of paper left people believing the page was larger than if the dots were close together, even though both pages were the same size. This tendency illustrates how our minds rely on mental shortcuts—called heuristics—to make sense of the world.

Decades later, Harvard psychologist Carol Dweck popularized the idea of fixed versus growth mindsets. A fixed mindset views abilities as static traits—“I’m just not a creative person”—while a growth mindset sees them as malleable: “I’ll get better with practice.”

Neuroimaging reveals that growth mindsets activate brain regions associated with top-down learning and plasticity, encouraging exploration and resilience. Conversely, fixed mindsets restrict those pathways and fuel avoidance.

By intentionally priming your brain with growth reminders and evidence against your own limiting beliefs, you reshape your mental shortcuts. A mind open to change becomes its own greatest ally in learning and performance.

Catch yourself thinking “I can’t.” Pause and jot down one past success that contradicts it. Whisper a growth mantra like “Abilities grow with effort” as you move into the next task. Watch how that tiny mindset shift opens new doors.

What You'll Achieve

Rewire self-limiting beliefs into growth-focused ones, unlocking new learning pathways, greater persistence, and increased achievement.

Prime your brain for possibility

1

Spot a fixed belief.

Write down one “I can’t” or “I’m no good at” thought. Notice it without self-criticism—it’s just a mental habit, not a fact.

2

Find contrary evidence.

List any times you succeeded in a similar area. Even small wins count. This weakens the false idea that you’re stuck.

3

Repeat a growth reminder.

Create a brief mantra like “My abilities grow with effort.” Place it visibly—on your monitor or mirror—so it pops into mind when doubt arises.

Reflection Questions

  • Which “fixed” belief holds you back most?
  • What evidence disputes it?
  • What growth mantra will you use today?

Personalization Tips

  • If you believe you’re a poor writer, recall that blog post your friends loved. That’s your brain’s proof that you can improve.
  • When you fear public speaking, remember the brief meeting you led successfully. Use that confidence as fuel.
  • If you think you’re bad at negotiation, list one time you got a better price at the market. That’s evidence of flexible skills.
Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
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Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life

Susan David 2016
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