Balance challenge and mastery so you never stall

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Ellie loved her job managing digital ads. She was fast, reliable, and accurate. After three years, though, she hit a plateau and wound up watching cat videos during work hours just to keep from feeling bored.

She realized she’d grown too comfortable, so she raised her personal bar. Instead of tweaking existing campaigns, she pitched an experimental ad format to her team. Her first pitch was met with polite nods—but no budget.

Undeterred, Ellie studied effective test-and-learn methods in her off hours, refined her metrics, and reapproached her manager with a small pilot plan. This time, she got sign-off. Within two months she’d increased click-through rates by 18%, earning her team more budget and new challenges.

This is the teeter-totter in action: find tasks that are just a little above your comfort line. Studies show optimal growth happens when competence and challenge are in healthy tension—keeping you engaged without overwhelm.

Pinpoint one work task that feels too easy and design a tiny extension—another metric to track, a new presentation, a fresh audience. After each trial, review what clicked and tweak the next step. This steady push into the growth zone keeps you whelmed, not overwhelmed.

What You'll Achieve

Stay engaged and avoid stagnation by routinely expanding your skills just beyond your current competence, leading to continuous growth and renewed motivation.

Find your personal growth sweet spot

1

Evaluate your stretch gap.

Rate current tasks on a 1–10 scale of difficulty versus your skill. Identify one task where challenge just outweighs ability (around a 6–7).

2

Increase complexity slightly.

Add a small twist—if you normally write reports, volunteer to present one in front of stakeholders. If you’ve been running 3 km, add 500 m.

3

Commit to review.

After each attempt, journal for five minutes on what felt too easy or too hard. Then adjust the next micro-challenge accordingly.

Reflection Questions

  • What task have you mastered to the point of boredom?
  • What micro-challenge could you add tomorrow?
  • How will you know if it’s the right level of stretch?

Personalization Tips

  • If you play guitar, learn one new chord progression instead of repeating your favorite riff.
  • At work, if budget forecasting is routine, model one new scenario for next quarter.
  • In parenting, if packing lunches is second nature, involve your child in choosing a new healthy snack this week.
Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
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Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life

Susan David 2016
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