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Ego Is the Enemy

unlearning the hidden habits that quietly sabotage ambition

Ryan Holiday
2016
8 Key Insights

About This Book

Ambition isn’t your problem—ego is. This guide shows you how to replace noisy self-importance with calm, durable confidence so you can do your best work, lead well, and recover fast when life hits hard. Through clear principles you’ll learn to talk less and build more, choose to do meaningful work over chasing image, stay a student long after you “arrive,” turn setbacks into “Alive Time,” and anchor success to purpose and process, not applause. With vivid stories and step‑by‑step practices, you’ll develop discipline, humility, and clarity—the rare combo that keeps you steady at the start, generous at the top, and resilient in the dip.

About the Author

Ryan Holiday is a strategist and teacher of practical philosophy whose work blends history, psychology, and timeless ethics for modern life. He has advised leaders in business, sports, and media, and is known for translating ancient wisdom into clear, usable tools. He writes with an athlete’s focus on repetition and process and a craftsman’s respect for feedback and refinement. His approachable style, rich with real cases, helps readers think clearly, act decisively, and cultivate the rare mix of humility and courage that sustains long‑term success.

Biggest Takeaway

• Build quiet confidence that doesn’t depend on likes, titles, or luck. • Replace performative busyness with focused execution and measurable progress. • Stay a lifelong learner by seeking feedback and the right mentors. • Trade fragile passion for purpose, systems, and consistent habits. • Navigate conflict with restraint and credibility instead of reactivity. • Turn stalled moments into “Alive Time” for deep skill-building and reflection. • Judge success by your internal scorecard so setbacks don’t derail you. • Lead by clearing paths for others, compounding trust, influence, and results.

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