Back your boat down to shed drag and refocus

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A sailboat can carry majestic canvases high atop the mast, but below it, a heavy keel keeps it upright. Over time, underwater kelp clings to that keel, slowing every tack and turn. Sailors don’t curse the wind; they back the boat down—turn into the breeze until it pushes them backward—stripping off the algae. Suddenly, the hull glides like new. Our lives behave the same way.

‘Kelp’ in everyday life are habits, meetings, commitments, and beliefs that once served but now drag us down. We keep them hidden beneath the surface because we’re busy sailing on. But if we pause and reverse course—intentionally stop everything—we can see what’s stuck and let it fall away. This annual ritual isn’t about regret; it’s about renewal.

Behavioral studies show that periodic “mental clean-sheets” improve focus, reduce stress, and bolster innovation. By shedding 20% of low-value activities each year, we reclaim time and energy for what truly matters. The next time you feel chronically tired or stuck, consider backing down the boat. You’ll discover how much easier fresh ambitions can sail.

Pick a meaningful annual date for a kelp-shedding session, list your recurring commitments, rate them for alignment with your ambitions, and cut the bottom 20%. By pausing and reversing course, you strip away drag and make room for the pursuits that propel you forward. Give it a try this year.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll eliminate low-value commitments that sap energy and time, cultivating renewed focus and creative capacity. Externally, you’ll redirect resources to high-impact projects and develop a clearer, more sustainable rhythm.

Annual kelp-shedding session

1

Pick a reflection day

Choose one day each year—perhaps a birthday or anniversary—reserved for reviewing commitments and habits without interruption.

2

List every ongoing commitment

Write down weekly routines, recurring meetings, obligations, and projects you’ve carried for over a month.

3

Rate each for alignment

On a scale from 1 to 5, score how much each item advances your top ambitions or drains your energy.

4

Drop the bottom 20%

Remove or delegate the lowest-scoring items—those that create drag. Celebrate the extra space and clarity you’ve created.

Reflection Questions

  • Which recurring activities no longer serve my top ambitions?
  • How can I gracefully release or delegate obligations I’ve outgrown?
  • What new possibility will I invite into my life with the time I reclaim?

Personalization Tips

  • Teachers: annually review student commitments and extra-curricular duties, shedding the ones that burn you out.
  • Freelancers: tally all client projects and rate them by passion and profit, then phase out the low-value gigs.
  • Parents: inventory weekly family activities, drop one that feels obligatory, and reclaim that slot for self-care.
Dream Big: Know What You Want, Why You Want It, and What You’re Going to Do About It
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Dream Big: Know What You Want, Why You Want It, and What You’re Going to Do About It

Bob Goff 2020
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