Fuel resilience by priming curiosity first

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Curiosity isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s the engine for learning, memory, and creative problem solving. When we encounter a knowledge gap, our brain’s dopamine reward system kicks in, sharpening focus and boosting retention. But that gap must be primed; we won’t seek answers to questions we haven’t noticed.

Game designers know this well: they tease players with glimpses of treasure just out of view, compelling them to keep exploring. In the same way, educational psychologists recommend “desirable difficulty”—making the challenge neither trivial nor overwhelming. When you introduce an unexpected twist, learners lean in and remember far more.

The trick is pacing: reveal just enough intrigue to spark wonder, then build on it. Each small answer uncovers deeper questions, fueling a virtuous cycle of curiosity. With deliberate design, you make the learning journey itself irresistible.

Next time you lead a discussion or workshop, start with a single provocative question or fact. Pause and let the silence build for five seconds—resist filling it in. Invite guesses and reflections before you deliver the full explanation. Watch as the room leans forward, minds engaged. That moment of wonder is the spark that lights deep, long-lasting learning. Give it a try in your next meeting.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll boost engagement, idea generation, and knowledge retention by activating learners’ natural motivation to fill knowledge gaps.

Prime the pump for lasting curiosity

1

Offer a teaser before deep dives

Before a training or brainstorm, share one intriguing fact that sparks questions. That piques interest and makes people eager to learn more.

2

Layer in new ideas gradually

Break big topics into bite-sized modules. Teach a key concept, invite questions, then build on those questions in the next session to deepen understanding.

3

Celebrate the ‘I don’t know’ voice

Encourage people to say “Tell me more” and “I’m curious about that.” Reward gaps in knowledge as opportunities, not embarrassments.

Reflection Questions

  • What’s one surprising fact you can use to open your next presentation?
  • How can you break a complex topic into curiosity-sparking teasers?
  • Where do your colleagues most often say “I wish I understood that better”?

Personalization Tips

  • In a health workshop, start with a shocking statistic on sleep loss before rolling into the full seminar.
  • At a family dinner, ask “Did you know our town’s lake was formed by an earthquake?” to make geography come alive.
  • On a volunteer trip, share a short, captivating story about a local hero to drive curiosity before launching the project.
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Dare to Lead

Brené Brown 2018
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