Trust is built one tiny marble at a time

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Acme Industries was struggling with missed deadlines and unclear communication. The CEO introduced a simple exercise: each team chose one BRAVING element and turned it into a specific promise. The R&D group committed to nightly code check-ins; marketing pledged to hold edits three days before launch; operations promised daily status emails by 5 P.M. Slow at first, these tiny acts of Reliability added up—marble by marble—in their collective trust account.

Within two quarters, cross-department projects that once went dark now carried momentum. Engineers trusted marketing to deliver briefs on time. Marketers counted on ops to update them daily. When systems glitched, they rallied together to own mistakes and learn without blame. Turnover dropped, morale rose, and a 15 percent productivity gain followed.

Behavioral scholars confirm that trust grows over repeated, reliable interactions. By operationalizing a single trust behavior and measuring it, Acme didn’t just feel trust—they scored it, sustained it, and watched their bottom line improve.

You’ve picked your BRAVING anchor—let’s say Reliability. At today’s stand-up, state your new team commitment: “I’ll share my daily progress by 5 P.M.” Back at your desk, schedule that update every afternoon like a meeting. When tomorrow’s 5 P.M. bell rings, hit send without excuses. Tomorrow at stand-up, listen for examples of others’ reliability and offer a quick “thank you” for each marble earned. This single habit, practiced together, will begin to shift your culture toward genuine trust.

What You'll Achieve

Your team will experience faster coordination, fewer follow-ups, and greater cross-functional confidence.

Earn trust in everyday moments

1

Choose one trust element to focus on

Pick BRAVING behavior—Boundaries, Reliability, Accountability, Vault, Integrity, Nonjudgment, or Generosity—and decide which needs the most work right now.

2

Define one team-specific behavior

Translate that element into a concrete action your team can practice. E.g., for Reliability: “I’ll always share status updates by 5 P.M.” Write it down and share it.

3

Check in weekly on success

At your next team meeting, rate how well each person kept that promise, share gratitude when someone shines, and problem-solve together when someone struggled.

Reflection Questions

  • Which BRAVING element do your colleagues say you most need to improve?
  • What’s one tiny promise you can keep today to earn new trust?
  • How will your next team meeting change if you publicly celebrate one trust-building act?

Personalization Tips

  • If you lead a sports team, Reliability might mean arriving fifteen minutes early to each practice.
  • In family life, Accountability could look like spotting the table after dinner and apologizing if you forget.
  • As a project manager, Vault could be keeping budget updates off-the-record until you have a clear plan.
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Brené Brown 2018
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