Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High

Learn how to navigate high-stakes talks to transform relationships and results

Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler

2002

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About This Book

Every day, we dodge conversations that matter most—raising feedback with a colleague, confronting a roommate, or talking about money with our partner. By mastering these skills, you’ll discover how to step up when stakes are high, share your toughest concerns, and keep relationships strong. You’ll learn to recognize when talks turn crucial, safeguard safety with Mutual Purpose and Respect, and guide dialogue back on track. Packed with vivid examples, neuroscience insights, and real-world case studies, this guide will transform your toughest interactions into opportunities for clarity, trust, and breakthrough results.

About the Author

The authors are veteran organizational consultants and behavioral scientists who’ve spent over two decades studying high-stakes interactions. They blend research from psychology, neuroscience, and communication to create practical, easy-to-learn tools. Through coaching Fortune 500 teams, healthcare providers, and military units, they’ve helped thousands turn potential confrontations into moments of clarity and collaboration. Their work draws on over 100,000 research participants and real-world experiments, ensuring you get proven strategies.

Biggest Takeaway

• Gain confidence to speak up on any topic without alienating others • Spot the exact moment conversations become risky and steer them back safely • Reduce anxiety by mastering the emotions that hijack your best intentions • Resolve disputes more swiftly with tools that build shared meaning • Strengthen trust, boost collaboration, and cut costs by avoiding silos and miscommunication

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