Escaping the Trap of the Bisy Backson: Why Busyness Is Not Progress
At first, doing 'nothing' feels like wasting time. You fidget, check your phone, glance at the clock. There’s a low-level hum of guilt—shouldn’t you be catching up, learning more, posting something? But as you stick with it—maybe sitting on a bench after class, just breathing—you notice the air on your arms, a dog barking nearby, your breath slowing down.
Unexpectedly, your mind starts to settle. The tangled worries unravel, and new ideas rise up from the quiet, like stones under clear water. By the time you stand up, you have energy and a hint of excitement that wasn’t there before.
Psychological studies show 'screen-free idle time' is essential for creativity, emotional health, and preventing burnout. Constant busyness (what the Taoists call 'Bisy Backson') leads to shallow focus and restlessness. Regularly including purposeful 'nothing' helps you reset, solve problems more cleverly, and remember what actually matters.
Block out a little time every day to do absolutely nothing—no screens, no to-dos, not even reading. Just sit, walk, or lie down and be with your surroundings. Notice any tension or impatience, and stick with it. Afterward, pay attention to how you feel and jot down any ideas or emotions that popped up. You’ll be surprised how often focus and lightness return after what seems like a silly pause.
What You'll Achieve
You’ll reduce anxiety, boost your creativity, and rebuild energy—while learning to avoid confusing constant activity with real progress.
Intentionally Build 'Doing Nothing' Into Your Schedule
Schedule an open period of 'nothing.'
Once a day, choose a short window (10-20 minutes) where you do not plan, review, or accomplish. No screens, emails, or chores—just be present.
Notice your internal resistance.
Pay attention to feelings of restlessness or guilt that come up. Jot down anxieties or thoughts that try to pull you into action.
Reflect on the effects afterward.
After the 'nothing' break, write or voice note what you noticed, any ideas or calm that surfaced, and how your energy or focus changed.
Reflection Questions
- What am I afraid might happen if I do nothing for a few minutes?
- Where has busyness led to exhaustion but no real achievements?
- How did I feel after intentionally doing nothing today?
- How can I reframe 'doing nothing' as part of my productivity or self-care?
Personalization Tips
- Pausing after school before starting homework, just sitting in your room.
- Taking a slow walk without a destination to decompress after a tough day.
- Setting aside five minutes at work with your phone silenced—just noticing surroundings.
The Tao of Pooh
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