Why Highly Intelligent People Often Make Terrible Money Decisions

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Consider two wildly different people: one a Harvard-trained executive, the other a janitor who spent most of his life fixing cars and sweeping floors. On paper, it's obvious who'd 'win' at money. But when the executive, pulled by insecurity and ego, began showing off his wealth—and making impulsive, outsized bets—he ended up broke. Meanwhile, the janitor, acting with quiet restraint and patience, passed away with millions in the bank, giving most away to charity.

Deep in a high-end hotel, you could hear laughter when expensive gold coins were skipped off the dock into the ocean, just for the thrill of it. A few years later, the same voices would go silent, fortunes erased by a single crisis. By contrast, the janitor’s old friends only learned of his wealth after his death. His story was never about dazzling intelligence or market timing, but about small, repeatable behaviors—saving a little every month, never being swayed by bravado, and keeping steady through market storms.

Behavioral science teaches us this is no fluke. Financial outcomes attach more tightly to our ability to manage impulses, resist envy, and avoid crowd-induced errors than to intellect or formal education. The mind is easily misled by pride, fear, and quick wins, but those who cultivate a few behavioral disciplines—and build guardrails to catch themselves when they slip—stand the best chance at long-term security.

Start by simply noticing how you feel the next time money’s on your mind—maybe anxious at the checkout counter or tempted to brag. Don’t judge those emotions, but use that awareness to set specific rules for future decisions, like capping spending or taking a pause. If in doubt, talk your decision through with someone whose experience or world-view differs from yours; often they’ll spot things you can’t see. Practicing these small steps might not feel dramatic, but over time they’ll add up to lasting change. Give yourself permission to trade a little smarts for steady habits and see what happens in your finances this month.

What You'll Achieve

Build resilience against financial self-sabotage, develop emotional awareness around money, and gain practical self-control that leads to long-term financial stability.

Shift Focus from IQ to Self-Control

1

Notice your emotional reactions around money.

Pause the next time you get excited, anxious, or competitive about a financial decision. Acknowledge the feeling without trying to immediately 'solve' it. This awareness builds emotional literacy and helps prevent rash choices.

2

Set personal behavioral guardrails.

List two or three money habits that tend to trip you up (e.g., impulse spending, showing off, panicking during market dips). Write down one boundary for each to protect yourself—such as a spending limit, a pause before big purchases, or a rule about discussing big decisions with someone you trust.

3

Seek feedback from someone outside your usual circle.

Explain your recent money decision to a friend or family member with different life experience. Ask them what they would have done and why. Often, they're less emotional about your situation and can spot blind spots.

Reflection Questions

  • In what situations do I notice myself acting emotionally with money?
  • Which single behavior (not knowledge!) would most improve my financial future?
  • How can I create barriers to bad decisions, especially under stress or excitement?
  • Who outside my usual circle could give me honest feedback on money choices?

Personalization Tips

  • A college student sets rules for how much they can spend per week to avoid peer pressure-induced splurges.
  • A parent pauses before making a big purchase, checks their feelings, and calls a sibling for a ‘reality check’.
  • A junior employee discusses a raise negotiation with a mentor outside their industry for a broader perspective.
The Psychology of Money
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The Psychology of Money

Morgan Housel
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