Stop Hoping to Be Discovered and Start Building Your Own Platform
You might know someone who keeps hoping their work will just 'get noticed,' but feels invisible each time another gatekeeper passes them by. Maybe that’s you. The reality is, waiting to be picked rarely leads to success. In today’s noisy world, it’s not only about what you know or what you can do, but about who you know—and who knows you. The only thing standing between you and your audience is your willingness to step onto your own stage.
As the digital landscape has leveled the playing field, anyone—regardless of budget, celebrity status, or connections—can carve out a space for their voice. Think about the ways you already engage people each day—a thoughtful email sent to dozens, a side project you posted on Instagram, or an opinion you shared during a meeting. These are your platforms.
What transforms these scattered touchpoints into a real platform is consistency and control. When someone chooses to develop their own blog, podcast, or newsletter, they create a space that isn’t vulnerable to the rules imposed by bosses, teachers, or platform algorithms. Instead of hoping for one lucky break, you create dozens of small opportunities to connect, improve, and be remembered. This isn’t mere theory—it’s the underlying principle behind every breakthrough you see online, from viral TikTokers to local artists selling out shows. Anyone can do it, but only if they own the process.
Don’t wait for someone else to recognize what you offer—instead, identify everywhere you currently show up and choose your own main place to build from. You’ll get the most traction by investing in one area you control, whether it’s a blog, a newsletter, or another space you can make your own. Get intentional about steering people there and building relationships one interaction at a time. This is how you go from overlooked to genuinely noticed—not by accident, but by choice. If you’ve never done it before, today is the perfect day to begin.
What You'll Achieve
You will build confidence by controlling your own reputation and message, and multiply opportunities by making it easy for the right people to find and connect with you. Long term, this leads to greater visibility, more influence, and new relationships or opportunities in any field.
Own Your Message and Connect With Your Audience
Accept that gatekeepers aren’t coming.
Acknowledge that waiting for a publisher, supervisor, or authority figure to pick you is rarely a winning strategy. Decide to take control of your own message, product, or service.
List all the places you already connect with people.
Include your social media profiles, blog, public speaking events, or any regular appearances or content you create. Add those traditional spaces—like clubs, community boards, or even email lists.
Choose one main 'home base' to develop first.
Pick a platform you control (a blog, website, or newsletter) and commit to making it your primary place for sharing ideas and building relationships. This is where you will consistently direct people—so prioritize it over scattered efforts.
Reflection Questions
- What am I waiting for permission or recognition to do?
- How can I gather my scattered efforts into one main hub?
- What unique message or story do I want to share?
- What stops me from taking ownership of my own platform?
- What’s the smallest next action I can take today?
Personalization Tips
- Career: Stop waiting for your manager to notice your strengths—start a professional blog or LinkedIn series showcasing your expertise.
- Creative: Rather than hoping an agent finds your art, display your work and stories regularly on your own site.
- Community: If you have a social cause, create an online hub where people can join, learn, and interact.
Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World
Ready to Take Action?
Get the Mentorist app and turn insights like these into daily habits.