Confusing Risk With Movement Keeps You Stuck

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Dr. Jan Souman once discovered that when people try to walk straight without landmarks, they wind up circling back to their starting point. It's an apt metaphor for how we mistake flux—mere movement or change—for real risk. In modern life, most people steer clear of any flux, believing it's always a risky leap, but the evidence shows that flux is just the natural flow of growth, while risk only exists when there’s something to lose.

Too often, workplaces and families slow down change, clinging desperately to routines. The logic is, 'no surprises, no failures.' But this isn’t how high-performing teams operate. Cognitive-behavioral researchers find that people who accept flux as normal report far less burnout than those who see every transition as a threat.

By naming movement for what it is—a necessary part of life—you free yourself from the paralyzing fear that keeps you static. Growth comes only through repeated, managed movement, not through total stasis.

Think back to a time you dodged change because it felt too risky—did you really stand to lose something real, or was it just the discomfort of more movement? Write down the instance, decide if genuine risk was present or if you only confused newness with danger, and then ask yourself what potential benefits might have come from leaning into the flux. Let yourself explore more opportunities for movement this week, knowing that not all motion requires you to gamble. Sometimes, moving is simply how you find your next big success.

What You'll Achieve

You will recognize the difference between real risk and necessary change, lowering your anxiety about movement and increasing your adaptability to new challenges.

Separate Risk From Healthy Change

1

Write Down a Recent Change You Avoided.

Recall a situation (big or small) where you hesitated to act because it seemed risky—maybe a workplace shuffle or trying a new hobby.

2

Identify If the Change Was Actual Risk or Just Flux.

Assess whether this change truly threatened you or if it was simply movement or flux (i.e., adjustment or transition with manageable downsides).

3

List Potential Benefits of Embracing More Movement.

Explore what you might gain by allowing for flux, even if it’s uncomfortable—learning, connections, new experiences.

Reflection Questions

  • Have you confused movement or change with true risk recently?
  • What safe movements could you try this month to strengthen your confidence?
  • How do people you admire manage flux differently than those who stagnate?

Personalization Tips

  • At work: Volunteering for a rotating role which feels uncertain but might offer growth.
  • Personal: Trying a new approach to managing your day instead of sticking to routine.
  • Hobbies: Joining a group class you’re not yet skilled in.
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