Measuring Your Permission Asset: Treating Attention as Your Most Valuable Resource

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A regional sports club worked for years to grow its newsletter list, but never considered how much it was actually worth—attention was assumed to be freely given, rather than earned and measured. One season, members stopped opening emails, event sign-ups dropped, and donations shrank. When management finally reviewed their data, they realized only a small, loyal group was engaging, and these few drove most of the buzz, membership growth, and event revenue.

The club decided to run a detailed audit: they estimated the average lifetime value of a loyal, permissioned member—including not just direct purchases, but indirect referrals and social posts. They stopped sending generic blasts to everyone, focusing instead on tailoring updates and invitations to those most interested. Engagement rates soared. When someone stopped responding, the team reached out with a personalized check-in or new incentive. By treating their list as a finely-tuned asset—not a commodity—they could predict and boost results far better than ever before.

This mirrors the business concept of “customer asset management,” analyzing, tracking, and nurturing the lifetime worth of active, willing, and engaged customers. It’s rooted in behavioral and relationship marketing science: permission is not a static list, but a living, breathing resource.

Set aside time for a thoughtful audit. Gather every list, community, or repeat contact that you can reach with permission—and no, people who haven’t consented don’t count. Estimate what each relationship or permission group has contributed over time: not just sales, but participation, ideas, or referrals. Track who’s really engaged (opens, replies, sign-ups) and note where people are tuning out. When signs of fatigue appear, try a special offer, a new type of content, or a personal note to reawaken lost permission. Treat your permission base like gold—guard it, nurture it, and it will reward you many times over.

What You'll Achieve

Gain clarity and focus by objectively valuing permission as a key asset, enabling smarter investment, faster adaptation, and more consistent results across all communications and campaigns.

Audit and Value Your Permission Base

1

List all permission-based contacts and channels.

Include every email list, subscriber group, regular donor circle, or ongoing customer relationship you have explicit or practical permission to contact.

2

Estimate value per permission.

Based on past engagement, purchases, or conversions, calculate (even roughly) the average worth of one permissioned contact over its lifetime.

3

Track responsiveness over time and look for signs of compression.

Are your messages still getting opened and acted upon? If not, plan a fresh incentive or more relevant content to avoid permission fatigue.

Reflection Questions

  • How much do I know about the actual worth of my permissioned relationships?
  • What signs tell me when attention is slipping—and how do I respond?
  • How can I protect this asset from overuse or irrelevance?

Personalization Tips

  • A software business values its newsletter subscribers not just for purchases, but for the referrals and feedback they provide over time.
  • A local community center maps its repeat event attendees, tracking which programs keep bringing people back.
  • A fundraiser monitors which donors respond to personalized updates, adjusting future asks for higher engagement.
Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers (A Gift for Marketers)
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Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers (A Gift for Marketers)

Seth Godin
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