How the ‘Gift Mindset’ Creates Abundance Instead of Scarcity at Work

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The old rule was straightforward: keep what you earn, protect your secrets, and don’t share unless there’s something in it for you. Then something shifted—especially in digital worlds. You might have noticed how quickly advice, support, and creative works now travel from person to person, often with no direct payback. At first, being generous without reward seems hopelessly naive or even wasteful. But patterns keep repeating: those who contribute freely trade tips, connections, and resources, building networks of people enthusiastically rooting for them, sending referrals and opportunities their way.

This is the ‘gift economy’ at work—a mindset where value comes from sharing, not hoarding. A coach posts a free toolkit. A designer critiques a beginner’s work without scolding. Not every gesture circles back from the direct recipient, but over months, the openhanded person is the one new clients mention, unexpected job leads appear for, or whom old friends rally around during tough times. Research in organizational behavior confirms what traditional societies understood: networks built around gifts, not transactions, create more robust, resilient support systems that last and grow. And giving increases your own reputation, mood, and sense of self-worth, often more powerfully than chasing personal gain.

Jot down three things you could offer to people in your orbit with no strings attached—maybe it’s an introduction, a resource, or a listening ear. Then, simply give one away this week, resisting the urge to expect a return or acknowledgment. As you do this more often, pay attention to the unexpected ways value comes back—new opportunities, allies, or just a stronger sense of security and joy. The next time you feel tempted to keep everything for yourself, try giving instead and see what opens up.

What You'll Achieve

Shift from a scarcity to abundance mindset, build deeper relationships, and create a network that actively shares opportunities—while feeling more generous and less anxious about competition.

Give Without Keeping Score to Build Your Tribe

1

List Three Non-Transactional Gifts You Can Give.

Spend five minutes brainstorming ways you could offer something of value—advice, encouragement, a resource, a unique skill—where you expect nothing in return.

2

Give It to Someone Who Might Appreciate It.

Share your help or insight without attaching any strings, and avoid reminding the person or seeking acknowledgment.

3

Notice Network Effects Over Time.

Over days or weeks, log new opportunities, introductions, or feedback that arrive as a result of your visible generosity, whether or not directly from the recipient.

Reflection Questions

  • What holds me back from giving without expecting payback?
  • How can I be more visible about my helpfulness without demanding attention?
  • Who in my circle exemplifies this gift mindset, and what’s different about their results?
  • What moments of unexpected generosity have changed outcomes for me?

Personalization Tips

  • A software developer answers a tough question for a stranger on a coding forum with a detailed, helpful reply.
  • A student tutors someone struggling with chemistry, with no expectation of payment or future favors.
  • A business professional shares key learning resources with a competitor's new hire to elevate the whole field.
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