Why Innovators Network Beyond Their Comfort Zone—and How You Can Too

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Think back to the last time you heard an idea that made you double-take. Chances are, it didn’t come from your usual crowd. Innovation thrives on diversity—of thought, experience, and background. Michael Lazaridis, founder of BlackBerry, found his game-changing idea for wireless data at a trade show after a chance conversation with someone well outside his usual circuit. The room was noisy, coffee lukewarm, but the new voice sparked a connection.

In day-to-day life, it’s easy to cluster with people like yourself—same classes, same break room, looping the same social circles. But stepping outside that comfort, you encounter ideas, stories, and ways of seeing the world that challenge your assumptions. Sometimes it happens at a serendipitous barbecue, sometimes by reaching out purposefully to experts, or even to non-experts, who surprise you with outsider wisdom.

Behavioral science confirms what these anecdotes illustrate: weak ties and 'bridge' relationships—where two separate groups meet—are often sources of fresh, high-value information. Real breakthroughs often come when you put yourself where you might not belong, ask, listen, and are open to learning. Not every conversation will spark a revolution, but each can nudge your perspective wider and your creative reach further.

Look over your contact list and see who’s always present—then spot who’s missing. Make a conscious effort to connect with someone whose background, age, job, or worldview is unlike yours. These conversations don't have to be formal; a lunch, a coffee, a short chat at a community event—all count if you ask for honest insight into a topic you care about. Embrace the awkwardness and remember that each new viewpoint makes your next idea richer and more unique. Take the leap this week.

What You'll Achieve

You’ll tap into new sources of information and creativity, gaining not only unexpected solutions but also a stronger, more adaptable network for your personal and professional growth.

Build Your Circle With Maximum Diversity Weekly

1

List your top 10 regular contacts.

Write down the people you most often talk to for advice or ideas at work, school, or home.

2

Identify the diversity gaps in your network.

Are most contacts the same age, background, job, or mindset as you? Circle those most different from you.

3

Schedule one conversation each week with someone outside your usual circles.

Invite a colleague from another department to lunch, attend a community event outside your field, or strike up a conversation with someone from a different generation or culture.

4

Prompt them with genuine curiosity.

Open by saying, 'I’m interested in your perspective,' and ask for their thoughts on issues you’re currently wrestling with.

Reflection Questions

  • When was the last time I learned something valuable from someone totally outside my usual circles?
  • How can I make connecting beyond my comfort zone a repeatable habit?
  • What is stopping me from reaching out more often—fear of awkwardness or time constraints?
  • Whose perspective have I been undervaluing in my current network?

Personalization Tips

  • A business leader joins a robotics club to learn new uses for tech.
  • A parent swaps recipes and organizational hacks with foreign exchange parents.
  • A student interviews a neighbor who’s retired from a totally unrelated profession.
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Jeffrey H. Dyer
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