Why Your Life Plan Must Come Before Your Business Plan (Even When Urgent Decisions Loom)
When the pressure’s on—whether you’re taking a new job, launching a project, or thinking of growing your business—the go-to move is to blueprint the professional side first. What gets lost, too often, is a real map for your personal life. One founder realized, the hard way, that chasing ambitious sales goals led him to miss his daughter’s school play and feel like a stranger at his own dinner table. Only after a financial crisis forced him to step back did he dare ask, 'What do I actually want from all this?' Sometimes the biggest wins come not from another contract, but from reclaiming time and purpose. Science backs this up: when people put values and life vision ahead of business, their satisfaction and resilience rise, and burnout drops.
Start with the tough questions tonight. Grab a notebook and picture what your happiest five-years-from-now day looks like. List priorities outside work—kids, time off, learning, health, whatever makes your heart stronger. Then, pull out your current business plan or goals, and with honesty, check if they build the life you want, or pull you further from it. Adjust your plan, however small, to support who you want to become. Revisit this practice every few months and watch your work and life start to fit together, instead of pulling you apart.
What You'll Achieve
You’ll gain internal clarity, greater fulfillment, stronger relationships, and freedom from the cycle of work-driven regrets. Externally, this habit leads to sustainable choices that align your business progress with the life you truly want.
Reverse Your Planning Order for Authentic Success
Articulate your ideal life in five years.
Take ten minutes to write down where you want to live, who you want to spend time with, what you want to do outside of work, and how you want to feel.
Set non-business goals first.
Establish specific priorities—like family time, health, hobbies, or travel—before drafting any business strategies.
Cross-check business ambitions.
Ask whether your business goals will serve or sabotage your life goals. Adjust plans to support, rather than undermine, the life you want.
Revisit both plans quarterly.
Make checking in with both your life plan and your business plan a regular, scheduled habit. Tweak as needed.
Reflection Questions
- If your business doubled overnight, would your happiness double too?
- What’s a small habit from your life plan you can protect this week?
- Have you ever felt work chasing you away from those you love?
- What would you say to your future self looking back on today's choices?
Personalization Tips
- A parent wants to coach their child’s soccer team, so they limit business travel to two trips a month.
- An aspiring chef values weekends for family and decides against opening a restaurant with required late-night shifts.
- A freelancer builds ‘do not disturb’ time into their weekly schedule before accepting any new clients.
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