Why Hiring and Keeping Superstars Is About Personality, Not Just Skills or Experience

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Contrary to familiar HR wisdom, superstar performers follow a unique behavioral and personality profile that traditional interviews often miss. Research on high performers reveals a reliable pattern: they combine assertiveness (dominance) with empathy (influence), resulting in persistence through setbacks and an ability to forge strong buyer or teammate connections.

Behavioral screening methods, such as those inspired by the DISC assessment, intentionally stress-test candidates. Rejecting first, then watching for pushback, lets you spot those with unshakeable self-confidence. Most will politely accept rejection and move on—these are not your superstars. But the few who argue back or immediately start selling themselves show the emotional armor needed for high-pressure performance roles.

Stars may come from unconventional backgrounds and thrive on challenge. Performance-based compensation further acts as a magnetic reward, keeping them rowing hardest for shared wins. Science confirms that personality-centric hiring outperforms credential- and background-driven selection, especially in sales and other high-impact fields. Getting the right people (not just the 'right resumes') shifts the trajectory of teams and results.

When you need a true standout, create a job description that speaks only to stars—skip bland requirements and aim high. During interviews, reject strong candidates first and observe: do they cave, or do they politely provide evidence for why they belong? Ask deep questions about their biggest challenges and their ability to bond with others. When you spot the right mix of dominance and influence, reward them handsomely for what they deliver, not just for showing up. Over time, this approach attracts game-changers and weeds out the merely average.

What You'll Achieve

Find, hire, and retain exceptional performers who will drive growth, resilience, and creativity across your team or organization.

Screen for Dominance and Influence, Not Just Qualifications

1

Write job ads that challenge only top performers to apply.

Use language that appeals to high achievers, signaling your seriousness about results and making stars self-select.

2

Prescreen candidates by rejecting them outright first and observing their reaction.

A superstar will push back, demonstrating resilience and drive. Most will crumble—and that’s the point.

3

Probe for high dominance and empathy through behavioral questions.

Ask about resilience, toughest challenges, and relationship-building experiences. Great salespeople score high on both.

4

Structure rewards around performance, not time or background.

Offer big upside for results so stars feel valued—and don't get tempted to leave.

Reflection Questions

  • Which of your current hiring practices focus more on resume than on behavior?
  • How comfortable are you with intentionally rejecting candidates during screening?
  • What mix of dominance and empathy would best fit your dream team?
  • How does your reward system currently signal what you value most?

Personalization Tips

  • A teacher creates group projects where participation and leadership, not just grades, win top student honors.
  • A small business hires part-time help and gives bonuses for hitting clear targets, not just for hours worked.
  • A sports team selects captains based on both on-field performance and how they handle tough feedback.
The Ultimate Sales Machine: Turbocharge Your Business with Relentless Focus on 12 Key Strategies
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The Ultimate Sales Machine: Turbocharge Your Business with Relentless Focus on 12 Key Strategies

Chet Holmes
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