Why Failing Fast and Often Predicts Long-Term Success
Every major breakthrough you admire—scientific, artistic, or business-related—was built on a heap of small and sometimes embarrassing failures. What separates successful teams and individuals from the rest isn’t the absence of mistakes; it’s their willingness to fail, talk about it, adjust, and try again. The expectation of always being right is a silent killer of creativity. In cultures that celebrate early failure, small errors are treated as resources: each one is a data point, a signal about what doesn’t work and where hidden assumptions live.
At Google, new hires quickly learned that pursuing 100 experimental projects, only a handful of which would survive, wasn't a sign of waste but a badge of progress. Leaders openly asked, 'What went wrong?' not to assign blame but to surface constraints and spark invention. As a result, admitting mistakes became as routine as celebrating successes. When teams adopted this practice, small failures lost their sting and became the raw material for larger, more sustainable wins.
Behavioral science has a name for this—'intelligent failure.' It’s not about carelessness, but about making mistakes in domains where the cost is manageable and the learning is high. In practicing this, you reduce perfectionist anxiety, increase adaptation speed, and develop resilience through real experience—skills that compound over time.
Stop treating failure as a private shame—sit down for five minutes and list some things that didn’t work recently, big or small. For each, ask yourself, 'What did I pick up from this flop that I wouldn’t have learned otherwise?' Then, as soon as you can, find a friend or mentor and tell a short story about one of these missteps. Let them see that it’s not the end of the world and that it actually made you sharper. When this becomes your group’s habit, the sting fades and your learning curve picks up. Test it this month.
What You'll Achieve
You’ll lower the pressure to be perfect, normalize healthy risk-taking, and speed up real-world growth in skills and problem-solving.
Redefine Failure as Your Best Teacher
List your recent failures or setbacks.
Be blunt—include projects, ideas, or habits that didn’t work. This honesty primes insight.
Extract one key lesson from each failure.
Ask, 'What did I learn?' or 'What new skill or perspective did I gain?' Write these down next to each item.
Actively share a small failure with someone you trust.
This reduces shame, builds camaraderie, and may surface advice. Make it routine to discuss 'good mistakes.'
Reflection Questions
- How do I react internally when I make mistakes?
- What’s one recent failure that actually helped me grow?
- Does my environment (home, work, school) reward or punish honest mistakes?
Personalization Tips
- In sports: After missing a crucial shot, replay what went wrong and tweak your technique rather than hiding or brooding.
- At work: Admit when a pitch flops; ask for feedback, then immediately try a different approach.
- In learning: Share with classmates the programming bug you spent hours on and how you finally solved it.
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